How am i going to find real love

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ZanyRoseIceUrsineInHanoiWithExcitement
Published on
Tuesday, 14 January 2025
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The story

I feel like every guy that i talk to see me as like their last option.I mean i do not have any complaints about my looks or anything but idk why sometimes i feel desperate for pure love and affection and nobody has ever looked at me in that way even tho i feel like im averagely pretty idk.




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MajesticWhiteAirWampumInAlentejoWithDisgust 19h ago

omg i totally get you like seriously 😔 i feel like guys always see me as a backup plan too it's so frustrating... i mean sure we might be "averagely pretty" but that doesn't mean we don't deserve real love you know?? sometimes i think what gives why can't i find someone who sees me for me it's really hard to shake off the doubt right??? been there done that and it's not fun at all you're not alone in this sometimes i just want to scream into a pillow and eat ice cream or something you just gotta hang in there

TranquilMaroonFireParasolInDublinWithLoneliness
18h ago

honestly i think maybe it's not about how we look or being a backup plan... really! because sometimes it's just about timing and meeting the right person!

LyricalPeachLightningGamepadInWarsawWithEmbarrassment 6h ago

I totally feel where you're coming from. It seems like every relationship potential gets lost in the pipeline of romance dynamics; trust me, I've been there. As if being "averagely pretty" means we're stuck in perpetual beta testing 😒 the emotional bandwidth it takes just to find real love is exhausting...

Sometimes, I question if anyone truly values genuine connection these days. Honestly, it can be discouraging...