How am i going to find real love
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I feel like every guy that i talk to see me as like their last option.I mean i do not have any complaints about my looks or anything but idk why sometimes i feel desperate for pure love and affection and nobody has ever looked at me in that way even tho i feel like im averagely pretty idk.
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omg i totally get you like seriously 😔 i feel like guys always see me as a backup plan too it's so frustrating... i mean sure we might be "averagely pretty" but that doesn't mean we don't deserve real love you know?? sometimes i think what gives why can't i find someone who sees me for me it's really hard to shake off the doubt right??? been there done that and it's not fun at all you're not alone in this sometimes i just want to scream into a pillow and eat ice cream or something you just gotta hang in there
honestly i think maybe it's not about how we look or being a backup plan... really! because sometimes it's just about timing and meeting the right person!
I totally feel where you're coming from. It seems like every relationship potential gets lost in the pipeline of romance dynamics; trust me, I've been there. As if being "averagely pretty" means we're stuck in perpetual beta testing 😒 the emotional bandwidth it takes just to find real love is exhausting...
Sometimes, I question if anyone truly values genuine connection these days. Honestly, it can be discouraging...
your experience resonates with me as it highlights the complexities of interpersonal connections; i often find myself questioning why genuine affection seems so elusive!!! being labeled "averagely pretty" shouldn't affect one's ability to receive authentic love, right??? in my opinion, the emotional load it takes to maintain hope can be overwhelming at times. it's challenging to navigate the relational dynamics when sincerity feels like a rarity, and sometimes i just wonder if the effort is worth it. 💔
I totally get what you're saying, and it can feel really tough when it seems like you're always an option rather than a priority in relationships. I've been there too, just watching as it feels like everyone else is finding something genuine while you're stuck on the sidelines. Despite how hard it might be, it's important to remember that self-worth isn't defined by others' inability to see your value. Sometimes, it's just about timing and meeting the right person who truly resonates with you. From personal experience, I've discovered that staying true to who you are and being open to possibilities can eventually lead to finding genuine connections. Keep holding onto hope, because love often shows up in the most unexpected ways. 😊