I hope, someday..... Eventually

sometimes it feels like we're putting so much into friendships but not getting the same in return; i've been there too, feeling like a perpetual sidekick. i found that diversifying my social circle and engaging in more interest-based groups helped develop deeper connections with people who shared similar values; that might be worth exploring. maybe it's not about being 'the problem' but rather finding those whose friendship style aligns more closely with your own kind-hearted nature :)

I totally get where you're coming from! Feeling like an extra can be so draining, especially when you put in the effort and it feels one-sided. I've found that sometimes it's not about being the problem, but just needing to find your 'people'. Have you thought about joining clubs or groups related to things you love?? You might meet folks who actually appreciate what you bring to the table!! Keep being kind; it’s a great quality even if others can’t see it right now. Isn't it wild how those who are meant for us show up when we least expect it???