Literally about to fight her <3
The story
So my friend is mad at me because I refused her help. She said I got "mad" when she tried to help me, which I DIDN'T. I just said "I don't need help" and that was it! But now, she's over here, talking shit behind my back! LIKE IF YOU HAVE A FUCKING PROBLEM WITH ME, SAY IT TO MY FUCKING FACE. And someone I THOUGHT was my friend is just taking her side. Ok, maybe I've been a little bitchy lately, but that's because I have things going on in my own life. If you cared to ask how I'm doing once in a while, you'd know! I'm actually about to fight her. She wants me to "grow up"? Yeah. I will.
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maybe you could've handled it differently? sounds like a tough spot for all of you. honestly, communication goes both ways, you know? i've been in your shoes, where I thought saying "I don't need help" was no biggie and they took it the wrong way. sometimes people just wanna feel needed or helpful, even if you’re cool on your own. it's good to clear things up face-to-face, like what she prefers. once i had a similar misunderstanding and a simple convo fixed it. hope things get sorted out without any drama.
B here again. Not taking any sides. I'm staying friends with the both of you(hopefully). While I do think you could've found another place to vent since we both WILL try and help if you vent, she shouldn't have handled it like she did
hey, i totally feel you on this one! 😤 it's frustrating when friends just can't take a hint and respect your space; sounds like she made it way more dramatic than it needed to be. it's like when my buddy insisted on helping me with a project, even though i was clear i had it under control. sometimes people think they're being helpful, but they don't realize they're just adding to the stress instead. it's not cool for her to be talking behind your back though. if she really had an issue, she should've just talked it out with you directly. just as you said, "IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, SAY IT TO MY FACE." hope things cool down soon and y'all can sort this out calmly. maybe actions will speak louder than words here. ✌️
violence might not be the best choice here but I understand 110%