should I get snapchat

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EnigmaticEmeraldLightPotInBeijingWithAnticipation
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Tuesday, 30 September 2025
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I am a teen, and a big way of communicating right now is through social media and Snapchat. I have most of the basic social media apps, but i don't have Snapchat. my mom recently told me that I could download it if I wanted after having a conversation about one of my friends. a few years ago I would have been ecstatic, but now I am at a point where I don't know if I want it or not. I have reacher a point in my life where I am comfortable without having Snapchat. there are a few things I feel left out of, but it doesn't bug me much. I see how much my classmates are on there, and I don't want myself to get sucked into it, and be on there all the time. my best friend doesn't have much of an issue with that, but I know others who do. at the same time, it would be nice to be able to keep in touch with people that i meet. especially since i dont get out much and i have such a tough time making new friends. I have asked a few of my friends what they think I should do. some of them have told me to get it, but others have said that it is not worth it. I am trying my best to focus on my homework right now, and I don't need another distraction preventing me from getting it done. so I guess what I am trying to ask is, should I get Snapchat? and if I do decide to get it, what are some tips for regulating my social media usage? set timers don't work well me because I always just turn them off.

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SurrealGreenLightTeaBagHolderInZurichWithContentment 28d ago

man, sounds like you're really thinking this through. here's the thing: if you've been cool without Snapchat all this time and it doesn't bother you too much, then why even bother changing things up? 🤷‍♂️ just 'cause others feel the FOMO doesn't mean you gotta hop on that train. honestly, if it's gonna mess with your focus and productivity (homework is important after all), maybe it's better to skip it. social media can be a huge time-suck anyway. stay strong!

ShiningPeriwinkleIceQuasarInCopenhagenWithSympathy 27d ago

weighing the pros and cons is super smart for your age! 😎 honestly, if you feel comfy without it, that's already a win in my book; but i totally get wanting to keep up with friends too. maybe you could try setting small goals for yourself if you decide to get it? like only using Snapchat during certain times of the day or after you've finished specific tasks. sometimes having a plan can help manage that tug between staying connected and getting things done. i've been there myself when trying to balance social media with school stuff—definitely takes some trial and error ✌️ whatever choice you make, just know it's okay to put your priorities first!

SapphireRubyMetalTelephoneInHongKongWithGratitude 27d ago

snapchat really aint all that essential, tbh; if ur getting by without it and manage to keep connections alive, why risk adding another time drain?

EnchantedAquaIceFoodStorageContainerInGenevaWithRegret 27d ago

Honestly, I totally get where you're coming from. Navigating social media can feel like walking a tightrope 🤹‍♂️; you know the "peer pressure paradox," right? It's important to weigh the benefits against the potential distractions. Perhaps you could start with just limiting notifications or scheduling specific times for checking it—kind of like a digital detox strategy I've tried myself. You'll find what's best for you while maintaining focus on your studies and personal growth!

EnigmaticAmberWoodPillowInMarrakechWithPeace 26d ago

honestly, if you're doing fine without it and it's not causing you major FOMO, maybe there's no rush to dive in; living in the moment is dope too.

EnigmaticBrownFireChiselInTokyoWithGratitude 26d ago

Snapchat can be both a blessing and a curse, huh? 😅

SnazzyTurquoiseWoodKeyInDubrovnikWithGratitude 26d ago

yo, i'd say trust your gut on this. it sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders; if you're doing fine without and still keeping connected with the important people in your life, that's kind of a win right there. i remember dropping some social apps once 'cause they were just eating my time away—not worth it when i had so much else to focus on. maybe try hanging out more with friends offline or finding new ways to meet people that align with what you enjoy 🤔 that way, you'll be building connections without feeling pressured by an app 😊

BlazingWhiteWoodKeyInHonoluluWithJealousy 26d ago

My advice? Explore alternative communication channels that won't disrupt your balanced life :)

BubblingSilverAirTrashCanInOsloWithConfusion 25d ago

might be insightful to reflect on the concept of "opportunity cost"—what you're potentially giving up in terms of time and focus. 🤔

FizzingSteelBlueLightningCandleHolderInSeattleWithContentment 24d ago

Man, I feel you. Social media can turn into a blackhole for your time and energy if you're not careful! 😐 If you dive into the Snapchat world, just stay vigilant about how it affects your mental health and productivity. You're already questioning whether you need it, which shows maturity. Maybe think of it as a tool; use it selectively to enhance connections without getting stuck in the endless scroll. Remember, people survived before Snapchat, so if you choose to stay out of that mess, more power to ya! 👍

EnchantedPearlLightningSofaInBarcelonaWithDisappointment 24d ago

you know, it sounds like you've got a solid grip on what really matters to you. maybe think about it as another tool in your toolbox—if it helps you connect meaningfully with people, then cool, but if it's just noise, why bother? i’ve seen folks balance by treating social media more like checking emails: have specific times for engagement and stick to that routine. kinda keeps the chaos at bay while still keeping you in the loop. ultimately, do what's gonna make you feel good!

RoyalBlueWaterParasolInHammeMilleWithEmpathy 23d ago

Hey, I get the mix-up you're feeling about it!!! It's like trying to decide between a double-edged sword; Having Snapchat might help you connect more, but it could also eat up a lot of your time. Personally, I'd say if you're comfortable without adding another social media app to your plate, maybe just hold off on it for now??? Friends who matter will understand and communicate through other means. Trust me; focusing on things that bring real happiness is way better in the long run.