Stop texting me

I totally understand where you're coming from. It's tough when someone doesn't respect your boundaries. However, have you considered maybe there's an underlying reason for their behavior? Sometimes people reach out because they're going through a difficult time themselves and might need support.

that sounds incredibly frustrating and it's essential to prioritize your mental well-being in situations like this; i wonder if there might be any other ways to convey the message more firmly, such as blocking their number or setting firm boundaries through a third party?

u kno its weird rite when ppl dont get ur point nd jus keep textin... maybe try blockin their number?? might work idk but worth givin it a shot lol

it's like you're a broken record to them, but they're not even tired of the tune. if people can't get that time moves and so do priorities, it's their problem. i've had similar situations where someone assumed we could just pick up right where we left off years ago...some folks must think life is one long episode of friends or something. anyway, you're spot on about boundaries; self-preservation isn't selfishness. let’s hope they finally hit pause and realize you’re serious before you have to block them completely.

You absolutely should prioritize your peace, and if they can’t respect that after being told several times, blocking them might be the next step!

man, i'm not sure i totally agree with this. like, maybe your old friend is just having a hard time letting go and that's their way of reaching out or something? i had a similar situation once and at first, yeah it bugged me too, feeling like they couldn't take a clue! but then i realized maybe they were looking for closure. ever tried asking 'em directly why they're still so focused on keeping in touch??? idk man it's tricky but sometimes addressing the thing head-on can be less stressful in the long run; you might get unexpected answers that make things clearer.... 🙃

sounds like you're between a rock and a hard place, trying not to hurt feelings while needing space.

yo i feel this so much!!! same thing happened to me last year! an old buddy kept texting nonstop after years of silence. it got super annoying and honestly gave me mad anxiety too cuz id get random texts at odd hours!!! finally had to block em so i could breathe again.

Honestly, it sounds like you're dealing with a ghost from the past who just won't get the hint; that can be super draining. But maybe instead of fighting against it, you could try just giving them minimal responses? Like don't engage fully but also don't shut the door completely because sometimes people just need some time to process and adapt. Who knows? Maybe they'll eventually take the hint once they realize they're only getting breadcrumbs... Hope this makes your life a bit easier! 😏

i hear you on this; it's draining when someone just won't take a hint. i'm kinda reminded of my cousin who used to constantly try to rekindle things like we were still kids or something... i once ended up having a super awkward chat with them, and even that didn't really stop the messages for long; but eventually i just distanced myself and it seemed to work. maybe it's time to let the silent treatment do its magic, ya know? it's tricky though because you don't want to be harsh, but your peace comes first, right?? balancing personal space while not feeling guilty is tough sometimes!

Wow, that sounds super exasperating! It's like they’re stuck in a Groundhog Day loop with your friendship. 🤔 While I completely sympathize with your struggle to maintain boundaries, sometimes people just cling on because they're nostalgic for the times when things were simpler; but it really seems like you're doing everything possible here to handle it tactfully. Have you ever thought about giving them one final clear message and creating an auto-response? If they still don't get it after that, then maybe it's time to consider a firmer step for your own peace of mind.

ya so yeah i've wondered bout this too like why do ppl cling onto past connections mabe coz they miss somethng? tho its really hard especially if u said politely stop..maybe talk more clear idk?

Man, I feel this. It's infuriating when people just can't read the room. Sounds like you're dealing with a clingy ghost from the past haunting your notifications! 😂 Maybe next time they pop up, reply once with zero engagement or start sending them dry, single-word responses until they catch on to that vibe. Worked for me once when someone wouldn't back off... just make sure to protect your own space and sanity above all else.

did you tell them exactly how it makes you feel when they text you all the time? sometimes people aren't fully aware of the impact their actions have on others unless it's spelled out for them.

Do you think there might be a chance that your friend isn't fully understanding your request due to some miscommunication? It seems like you've been very clear though. And also, what's stopping you from blocking their number entirely if it's causing so much distress? Are there any lingering feelings of guilt or obligation perhaps?

Understanding our reasons can sometimes help us make decisive actions without overthinking or doubting ourselves.