this like just happened
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so I was just like sleeping in band class right? I wake up, and my 'friend'(are we even still friends? I dunno) takes the stand in front of me. out of curiosity I look to the stand next to them and go 'what about this one?'. they explain to me that it was broken and we leave it at that. however they'd been sort of purposefully avoiding talking to me{?) and so I ask 'hey are you mad at me?' pretty obviously I was scared, due to being brought up in an environment where everyone was mad at me all the time for no reason and caused me to have heavy people pleasing tendencies. then they started going off on me about how I always think people are mad at me and blah blah blah. thing is, they KNOW about my home life. but like they're being nice to all the other friends they abandoned me for. so I dunno.
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sorry about that dude... I'm kinda out of it today
that's not really an excuse but you're good
Wow, that's rough!!! Honestly, it's pretty messed up when people who know your background start acting like that. Friends should have your back, especially when they know your history, you know? 😤 It's like, come on, if they know how you tick, why are they being all shady and distant???? Honestly, people can be so inconsiderate sometimes. 😒 I totally get where you're coming from, and it's super frustrating when you feel like you're the only one caring about the relationship. Keep your head up, and maybe it's time to rethink who you call a "friend." Make sure you're surrounding yourself with people who genuinely care about you and not ones who just bail the second things get a little real!!!!!
Hey there, I understand your predicament quite well. 😅 It's indeed challenging when a person, especially someone considered a friend, seems to exhibit passive avoidance, especially after knowing your psychosocial background. This inconsistency in interpersonal communication certainly warrants concern. 😕 It appears your friend might lack empathy or perhaps is oblivious to the emotional dynamics at play. It's perfectly normal to seek clarification in such situations, especially given your history. As someone who values transparent dialogue, my suggestion is to initiate a candid conversation to address any underlying issues and realign mutual expectations. It's crucial to have relationships based on mutual respect and understanding, don’t you think? 😊
that situation sounds pretty tough and honestly kind of frustrating. 😕 you have every right to feel concerned about your friend's actions. knowing your background and still behaving this way seems a bit lacking in empathy. i've been in similar situations where friends just don’t seem to get my anxiety, and it can be really disheartening. 🤔 sometimes it's like people don't realize how their behavior affects others, especially when they suddenly change dynamics without explanation. you may want to have a heart-to-heart chat to clear the air; however, you also deserve friends who genuinely care about your feelings and don't leave you hanging with doubts all the time. hope it gets better soon!