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sounds like you're stuck in a vicious cycle of feeling like an outsider and trying to buy your way into friendships. it's tough when you feel like people are only around because of what you can offer financially, but maybe focusing on finding folks who appreciate you for who you are might help break that pattern; it’s easier said than done, sure, but finding even one person who's genuinely interested in "you" could change a lot. also, ever thought about picking up a hobby or skill just for yourself? sometimes developing something personal can give you more confidence and make interactions feel less transactional.

dude, sounds like you're in a rough patch. i felt the same way back when i was just starting college, always trying to fit in with people who seemed different. you don’t have to buy friendship though; it’s hard when it feels like you’re invisible unless you’re spending. but maybe just start small, focus on finding your own vibe away from the pressure of keeping a "role" up, ya know? real connections take time and won't cost you anything but being yourself (cliché but true). also, hitting rock bottom isn't the end, it's kinda like ground zero for rebuilding stronger bonds that matter.

Mate, it sounds like you're letting your self-worth get entangled with money and people's reactions. Why do you think spending cash is what's keeping these friends around? Honestly, it seems a bit skewed to associate friendships with monetary transactions. Are you measuring worth in quantitative terms rather than qualitative? 🤔

Consider this: maybe the so-called "role" you say you play is just an image or facade you're projecting because of insecurities. Could be more about what you believe than reality itself, right? People often undervalue being authentic, but that could be more compelling than the fake act. Being genuine might resonate deeper if given a chance. It's something to ponder before sinking into drastic decisions for validation, mate.

Man, that's rough, but thinking money has to be your ticket to friendships is such a weird take...

man, that sounds rough, feeling like you're playing a part and not really connecting must be exhausting; have you ever tried talking to any of your friends about how you're feeling?

you know what??? it might be time to stop pouring money into these friendships and start saving some for things that YOU enjoy!!! why not do stuff that makes you happy without worrying about impressing anyone; who cares if they don't stick around when the cash flow stops... at least you'll be doing things for yourself. also, ever thought of volunteering or joining a local group activity? cool way to meet new people who may appreciate your company beyond material offerings! just a thought but could open up new avenues for real connections :)

man, i hear ya; feeling like an outsider's rough. but yo, have you ever thought those who really click with you might just not be around yet? sometimes, life's kinda random that way and they pop up when u least expect it. i used to think similar vibes and outta nowhere met some chill ppl while trying out a new cafe alone. what's your current scene like? tried switchin' it up or hittin' any new spots recently???

I've been in a similar boat, feeling like you have to buy your way into friendships can really mess with your head. I think the real problem is seeing relationships as transactions rather than connections; we're all guilty of it sometimes, especially when we've never had strong examples of what real friendship looks like. Try shifting your focus toward activities that naturally bring people together. Volunteer or join a club where money doesn't play a role. You might be surprised how many genuine people are out there who just want good company and conversation...

man, it's really tough feeling like you have to buy your way into people's lives and i'm sorry you're going through that.

wow, it sounds like you're carrying a lot on your shoulders; been there in a way, felt like i was living in someone else's movie, just an extra. you ever wonder if the "role" you're playing is more about fear of being vulnerable than anything else? it's wild how easy it is to slip into that pattern without realizing it. when i felt like this, i started volunteering at a local animal shelter (not saying that's the answer but hey); totally helped me find something valuable outside of me and weirdly enough gave me some relief from feeling invisible.

if you’re feeling comfortable talking about such stuff, have you considered chatting with someone professional? honestly, sometimes having even a single honest convo can shift things around..

Man, what you're going through seems really tough and exhausting. It sounds like you're feeling kind of alone, even in the midst of people, which absolutely sucks. You know, it's not uncommon to feel disconnected like that when you're constantly worried about whether others genuinely want you around or if they just appreciate the perks;

But here's the thing: sometimes when we're stuck in our heads about how we don't fit in or lack talents, we miss out on appreciating what's unique about ourselves. You might be more talented than you think, not just in ways that are easily visible. Maybe a fresh perspective could be helpful? Consider stepping back and focusing on activities where you can simply enjoy yourself without any pressure from others to find some clarity and even small joys can make a big difference!!! 😊

dude, feeling like you need to spend money just to keep people around is such a trap. not everything’s transactional, even if it seems that way right now. maybe start by acknowledging what you bring to the table that's more than cash. everyone’s got something unique about them, even if it doesn’t scream “talent.” it's easy to overlook your own worth when you're stuck comparing yourself to others. one suggestion could be focusing on finding things you're genuinely interested in for yourself, not for others. who knows, through that process, you might connect with folks who appreciate those same interests and click naturally without all the pressure of having to impress with spending.

Hey there, your situation resonates with me quite a bit. I remember feeling stuck in similar cycles where validation seemed tied to what I could provide or do for others. The pressure of fitting into social norms can be exhausting, especially if it feels like you need to buy your way in! Honestly, sometimes it's about finding peace within yourself first before seeking it from external connections. Perhaps shifting focus on internal hobbies might aid in creating a sense of self-worth not tied to monetary means? Also... consider small steps towards introspection and self-care that don't rely on outside approval (it can be empowering). Developing personal skills or passions could potentially attract genuine connections naturally over time... don't underestimate the power of starting small!!

dude, i get feeling out of place, but thinking you gotta buy love or friendship is kinda off the mark 🤔; a lot of folks are drawn to realness and not what's in your wallet.