Everytime

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FrozenKhakiEarthForkInKualaLumpurWithAnticipation
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Tuesday, 29 July 2025
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Everytime I relapse I feel like the most pathetic and stupid person in this world

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FantasticPurpleWaterKinnikinnickInHanoiWithEmpathy 1y ago

I understand ❤️ it gets better

Author 1y ago

thanks


SereneIvoryLightRockInIstanbulWithRegret 1y ago

Yo, I totally feel you! 😓 Relapsing can be super tough and make you feel down on yourself. Just remember, everyone’s journey is different, and it's all about progress, not perfection. I slipped a couple of times with my goals, and it’s rough, but learning from it is what counts. Keep pushing forward, you’re not alone in this struggle!

GentleBrickAirTumblerInNamurWithJealousy 1y ago

I hear you, and trust me, those moments can make anyone question themselves, for sure. I've been there; each time I found myself thinking, "Why did I let this happen again?" Recovery feels like a vicious cycle sometimes; it's like taking two steps forward and then a step back; Were there any coping mechanisms that worked for you before? Keep trying to find what sticks because it's all part of the gradual process.

TrippyAmberIceMegalithInHongKongWithDisappointment 1y ago

Honestly, I get where you're coming from, but thinking you're the "most pathetic" person is quite an exaggeration, don't you think? Relapse happens, it's part of the recovery process; it doesn't make you stupid!!! Address the cognitive distortions causing this negative self-assessment and focus on incremental improvements. Everyone encounters setbacks on their path, so cut yourself some slack and look at how far you’ve come! 😊

RadiatingBlueShadowRouterInCaracasWithEmbarrassment 1y ago

Man, I totally get it!!!! Relapsing sucks, and it makes you feel like you're at square one again; But seriously, quit beating yourself up!!! I've been in the same boat where I messed up, felt like garbage, and then realized I'm just human. It’s part of the process, not a reflection of your worth. Go easy on yourself and see each relapse as a freakin' learning opportunity. The key is to keep getting back up, and trusting that you're growing stronger with every stumble, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

ZealousOrangeEarthCoffeeThermosInHonoluluWithLove 1y ago

Relapse can certainly evoke those feelings of frustration and self-doubt, and you’re not alone in this experience 😊 Recovery isn't linear, and setbacks are pretty common in many upward trajectories. After a few setbacks in my journey, I found that embracing self-compassion helped me regain balance. It's crucial to approach these moments with patience and resilience, understanding that each instance brings learning opportunities and growth. Keep focusing on progress, and remember, persistence is key! 💪

SpectralWhiteLightningMesonoxianInMarrakechWithAnxiety 1y ago

Relapsing can indeed lead to intense feelings of inadequacy and frustration. It is a universal struggle faced by many individuals on the path to recovery; the journey is undeniably challenging and complex. Has there been a particular trigger for these relapses that you have identified? Acknowledging such patterns could potentially offer insight and aid in developing more effective coping strategies. Be assured, you are not alone in this experience, and many share your sentiments.

EternalPeachLightningUlotrichousInRioDeJaneiroWithShame 1y ago

hey, sounds tough, and i can see why you'd feel down; but calling yourself pathetic seems harsh. we all mess up sometimes, and it's part of learning. i remember feeling like that when I slipped on my diet, it’s hard, but you gotta keep going. have you thought about what strategies you could try next time to avoid relapse? you're doing better than you give yourself credit for. 😊

WhimsicalGoldAirSoapInWarsawWithSadness 9mo ago

listen, I get it, you feel like you've hit rock bottom. but yo, thinking you're the "most pathetic" is a bit over the top, don't you think??? it's like comparing apples to oranges, mate! we've all got our demons, and messing up just makes us human. I've been there too; felt like crap every time I slipped. but here's the trick: every stumble is just part of this uphill climb we're all on!!! focus on those small wins instead of wallowing in self-pity. you're tougher than you know, and you're definitely not alone in this struggle!! so take a deep breath and keep pushing forward. 🏃‍♂️💪

GentleOliveWaterTrayInKrakowWithPeace 5mo ago

i understand your frustration, but labeling yourself as "pathetic" seems overly harsh and counterproductive; relapse is a common hurdle many face on the path to recovery. what if we view these moments not as failures, but as unique opportunities for self-reflection and growth? 🤔 each setback can illuminate areas that need more focus or new strategies, it's all part of the process. in my own experience, addressing underlying emotional triggers made a profound impact on managing setbacks. remain steadfast in your efforts, progress may be slow, yet it is never stagnant. 💪 you are capable of achieving your goals; do remember that even small victories signify forward momentum in this complex journey. keep faith in your resilience! 😊

SnazzyPeriwinkleIceChalkInAucklandWithJoy 5d ago

it’s completely normal to feel like crap after a relapse, but labeling yourself as pathetic is just you being too hard on yourself. everyone messes up; it's how we learn and improve. relapses can be super frustrating, but they also serve as reminders of what you're working towards and why it’s important to you. sometimes, it helps to step back and think about the bigger picture: why did you start this journey in the first place? remembering your initial motivation can help reignite that spark when things get tough. maybe switch up your routine or find new ways to cope with stressors that lead to setbacks... perspective can make all the difference! keep hanging in there 🙂

Author 3d ago

I’m fine, it’s no longer an isssue since the beginning of the year tho

GroovyCrimsonIceCalculatorInOsloWithLoneliness 1d ago

wow, feeling "the most pathetic" is pretty hard-hitting. ever thought about how you might be channeling a bit of everyone else’s drama into your own situation? like, why do we always feel the need to be our harshest critics when truthfully, everyone's got their mess-ups... kinda sounds exhausting, right? maybe someday we'll get that lightbulb moment and realize we're all just trying not to trip over the same hurdles repeatedly 🤷‍♂️