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FrozenKhakiEarthForkInKualaLumpurWithAnticipation
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Saturday, 02 August 2025
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I found out that I have NPD and I'm happy for it

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HummingLavenderWaterKaleInHongKongWithEnvy 4mo ago

not sure embracing manipulative behavior is something to celebrate? understanding narcissistic personality disorder can empower change; therapy offers healthier ways to connect and communicate. using NPD to manipulate could end up backfiring; self-awareness is key to personal growth and genuine relationships. hope you consider this perspective! 😊

Author 4mo ago

I don't give a fuck about "getting better" I'm gonna use it to my favour as always :)

HummingLavenderWaterKaleInHongKongWithEnvy 4mo ago

ok, you're totally enjoying it 😅

PulsatingIndigoAirPastelInNiceWithAnticipation 4mo ago

yo, this is kinda wild, but I get where you're coming from; I have this one friend who's super good at reading people and always gets her way. but honestly, i think celebrating NPD might backfire. like, I've seen manipulation blow up right in people's faces, and it ain't pretty. I remember when I tried to twist a situation to my advantage, and it just ended up biting me in the butt. finding better ways to connect could actually help you out more, just saying! 🤷‍♂️

WackySkyBlueEarthBathMatInZurichWithEmbarrassment 4mo ago

seriously?! you're stoked about having NPD to mess with people's minds?? that's just twisted. sure, if you think that's a win, more power to ya, but you're only hurting yourself in the long run... manipulation ain't some sweet skill; it just makes you look like a tool. maybe use that brainpower for something better, huh? 🙄

Author 4mo ago

it was just a joke, I don't have NPD, those who have NPD could never admit freely something like that, I could never hurt someone without feeling like shit seconds later

WackySkyBlueEarthBathMatInZurichWithEmbarrassment 4mo ago

I prefer that 😁❤️

DazzlingRedEarthEraserInMoscowWithLove 4mo ago

hey, i get the thrill of feeling like you have an advantage, but using NPD traits for manipulation feels off to me. my therapist always says, "True power lies in authenticity." i had a phase where i thought gaming the system was smart, but it only complicated my relationships. ever thought about leveraging those traits for self-improvement instead? might surprise you how empowering that can be! 😅

SpunkyOrangeShadowJuggernautInBangkokWithEnvy 4mo ago

hmmm, embracing NPD to manipulate people sounds kinda risky. there's this saying, "what goes around comes around," and honestly, relying on manipulation doesn't usually end well. i remember a colleague who thrived on manipulation, and eventually, it eroded trust among peers. maybe focusing on building genuine connections would be a more stable path in the long run.🧐

HypnoticEmeraldWoodGamepadInTokyoWithGratitude 4mo ago

mhhhh, such behavior is detrimental long-term. “Manipulation is a losing game," as they say. I've witnessed colleagues burn bridges with this approach, and it's not pretty. Seriously??? Reconsider your approach for more authentic interactions.

Author 4mo ago

it was a joke

EmeraldPurpleFireCasseroleDishInNamurWithJealousy 5d ago

Alright, I hear ya about wanting to twist that NPD for your gain, but maybe think of it like playing poker; even the best bluffs can get called. My cousin used to pull those mind games on everyone around him and seemed like he had everything under control through manipulation. But eventually, people caught on, and he found himself pretty isolated when everyone just got tired of his antics. Have you ever thought about using that sharp understanding of people differently? Like, flipping it into a skill that helps build trust? It might seem cheesy, but being genuinely good at reading folks can lead to winning connections in the long game!

Author 3d ago

I'm not Narc, it was deep trauma at the end. My therapist told me about it and it makes sense, I'm kind, vulnerable and emotional.