So fcking what?
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Until you have seen me touch me hear me speak to you in person all your fcking questions and doubts will just be forever doubts. Stop making up stories and move on with your fcking life. I don't wanna be involved with someone who doesn't trust my whole existence.fckijg ass.
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not sure to follow here :o
I am just ranting lol
yep, this part, I got it 😅🙃
But my point is valid lol
it seems to be! 😅
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hey, i hear where you're coming from, but isn't the need for physical presence as evidence of trust maybe overlooking other aspects of building confidence in someone? 🤔 trust can often be cultivated through consistent communication and understanding, even when physical interaction isn't feasible; i once had a long-distance friendship, and we maintained our bond through regular chats and video calls, finding authenticity in different ways. what makes you think that seeing someone in person is the only way to validate their existence and intentions? perhaps approaching this with an open mind might reveal that trust isn't always bound to physical proximity.
In this case this isn't friendship it is trust in work however they true to do mind boggling questions to catch me but in reality my responses for personal sht doesn't match my work life
honestly, i completely get the frustration you're expressing. in situations where trust is questioned so fundamentally, it can be incredibly taxing to keep justifying one's existence and truth to someone who's constantly doubting; you shouldn't have to expend energy proving yourself repeatedly. individuals should not be compelled to provide perpetual evidence of their credibility or worthiness to assuage unfounded insecurities. 😤 maybe it is time to reconsider the value of maintaining relationships wherein such basic respect and trust are at stake, as it tends to lead to continuous negativity and stress. do you really need that kind of strain in your life?
totally get where you're coming from; it sounds incredibly exhausting to have to continually validate your existence to someone who clearly has trust issues. if they can't accept your words and need constant physical verification, maybe it's a sign that they're not ready for a mature relationship. it reminds me of a time when a friend couldn't believe anything unless it was spelled out for them in person, which was honestly just a waste of time and energy. you deserve someone who believes in you without needing endless proof; trusting someone should be based on more than just face-to-face interactions, and if they're not willing to see that, it's their loss. keep doing you, and eventually, you'll find connections that don't demand such exhausting validation. 😤
sometimes it's not just about trust but also about balancing expectations, maybe try reflecting on what you both need from this connection and see if there's a middle ground where online communication could work without the stress; 🧐 I once had to step back and consider how much was asked of me versus what I actually needed to feel content in a relationship.
sounds like you're understandably pissed off, and who wouldn't be dealing with someone that can't get over their trust issues?? i mean, if someone needs you to be there in person to believe anything you say, maybe they're not ready for a real relationship; it's all about give and take. have you thought about laying down some boundaries? might help avoid these pointless struggles;
Sounds like you're fed up, and I totally get that!! Constantly having your existence questioned would be so draining. 😡 Trust shouldn't rely solely on physical presence; that's just setting unrealistic standards. Honestly, if they can't see the value in who you are beyond face-to-face contact, maybe it's time to reconsider if this relationship is worth your energy. You deserve better than dealing with someone's endless paranoia!
your frustration in this situation is completely valid, especially when it feels like your professional capabilities are being undermined by someone's personal insecurities...
seems like you're caught in a tricky work situation, and it's understandable to be frustrated by someone's doubts about your professional capability. relying heavily on face-to-face interactions for trust is pretty old school; we live in a world where online communication is just as legitimate. it's curious though why this person has so much skepticism: is it something that's happened before, or maybe an isolated issue? you could try flipping the script and ask why they don't trust digital proof; maybe understanding their side could diffuse some tension. either way, expecting real-time presence for validation does seem unnecessarily taxing when there are other ways to ensure accountability at work.
Man, chill out with the drama. You're letting someone else's doubts mess with your peace when you've got better stuff to deal with!!! 💥 If they can't separate personal issues from professional interactions, that's their problem, not yours; maybe they're projecting their own insecurities onto you and creating a disruptive environment. The millennial workforce relies on digital communication every day, so expecting face-time for every little thing is just outdated; shrug it off and keep pushing forward without letting this negativity bring you down.