Thinking…? Sleeping…?
The story
I can’t sleep. Why bother…? Y’know I can just… count sheep… one sheep… two sheep… three sheep… four.. sheep… god, I’m too tired to think of numbers. Atleast it made me sleepier, but… my storming thoughts aren’t gone yet. I think my girlfriend hates me. I’m not quite sure why I made this type of assumption… she sounds like she does. We argue almost daily about the smallest things… if I break up with her… then I might feel extremely miserable. I mean… I would like to, but… what about everything she has done for me…? I can’t let that slide at all… I want to cry, but I’m to tired… let’s just close our eyes and think of something else instead of… crying.
Stories in the same category
Points of view
hey, sorry to hear you're dealing with all that 😔 not sure i agree with just counting sheep to fix this... maybe try addressing the real issues instead? the relationship sounds pretty stressful if you're arguing all the time. it's tough, but have you tried talking to her about how you feel? communication may help more than sheep, in my humble opinion. make sure you're thinking about your own wellbeing too. just my two cents.
man, i get that sleep's elusive sometimes, but counting sheep seems too cliché 😕 relationships are complex, doubting if your "girlfriend hates you" might need deeper introspection; "we argue almost daily" isn't a typical sign of harmony. betcha need some heart-to-heart chats instead. "i want to cry, but i'm too tired" – sounds exhausting. consider prioritizing your mental peace. stay rational and reassess this dynamic, perhaps?
those sleepless nights are rough, and counting sheep never worked for me either 😅. it's even harder when your mind's weighing you down with doubts about your relationship. arguing daily does take a toll; maybe there's more going on beneath the surface. just remember that "communication is key," as they say, and it might be worth having a candid talk with her about how you feel. sometimes sharing what's on your mind can really help lighten the load. hope you find some peace soon!
I completely sympathize with your difficulty sleeping and the potential relationship concerns, yet I wonder if there's a more effective approach than counting sheep. In my experience, unresolved conflicts, such as your recurring sentiments that "my girlfriend hates me," can significantly inhibit restful sleep. While it's understandable to feel anxious about frequent arguments, perhaps consider the relationship psychologist John Gottman's emphasis on the importance of communication and conflict resolution; addressing issues openly may yield surprisingly constructive outcomes. I once assumed a friend was upset with me due to frequent misunderstandings, only to realize that discussing our feelings brought us closer. Remember, while the uncertainty of your girlfriend's feelings may be daunting, seeking clarity through dialogue holds the potential for both reconciliation and personal peace.