Tired after panic attack
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just had another panic attack. it feels like my life is just a series of these stupid episodes. i know therapists call them "responses" and whatever but honestly, it just feels like my body is betraying me every single time. i'm so fed up with being exhausted after; seriously, it's like running a marathon mentally and physically.
had one at work today which was embarrassing in itself. there i was, trying to give a presentation on our latest project when bam, heart racing, can't breathe, sweaty palms... the whole nine yards. people think you’re just weak or looking for attention. no one understands unless they've been through it themselves.
i know some might suggest meditation or breathing exercises again but let's be real. those are really just band-aids on a bullet wound. sometimes nothing works no matter how hard you try and that’s just infuriating.
the aftermath is the worst part though: hours of feeling drained and spaced out, unable to focus on anything productive for the rest of the day. who can afford that? i've got deadlines and responsibilities yet these attacks don't care about any schedule.
so tired of hearing people say "just relax" (fuuuuck you people!!!). it's not about relaxing! wish they'd stop giving useless advice and start understanding the reality of what happens during these moments. until then i'll keep pretending everything's fine because apparently that's what society prefers.
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man, i totally feel you on this. panic attacks can seriously hit you outta nowhere and leave you feeling completely wiped. it sucks when people think it's just something you can "shake off." you're not alone in wanting folks to understand it ain't that simple. keep pushing through, but yeah, it’s frustrating as hell dealing with people's cluelessness. hang in there!
Honestly, panic attacks sound terrible but everyone has their issues at work. Perhaps focusing on solutions instead of problems would help.
yeah well easier said than done when your brain's crashing...
Man, sounds like a rough situation and honestly, it’s frustrating to hear this "just relax" advice being pushed at you like it's some universal cure. That's such bullshit. People who don’t deal with panic attacks just don’t get the sheer intensity or the complete exhaustion that hits afterward. It's not about seeking attention, even though some people might cluelessly think so. They're just ignorant. You shouldn't feel embarrassed at all; these aren't something you can will away by calm vibes and a couple of deep breaths! 😤
can't believe how people think they got all the answers, right? like "just relax" is some magic cure 😂 you nailed it: if they haven't dealt with panic attacks themselves, they don't get it. it's pretty trash dealing with that aftermath too... can't imagine trying to be productive when you're barely functioning. wish more workplaces actually understood and supported instead of pretending it's no big deal. people gotta realize these things aren't just a mood swing or something!!!
Ugh, I totally get where you're coming from. It's like your brain suddenly turns into a malfunctioning machine and you just can't switch it off! 😡 People who've never experienced it think it's a "mind over matter" thing when in reality, your body has other plans. Seriously though, sometimes just getting through the day feels like an accomplishment; props to you for managing that presentation despite all the chaos inside!
idk man... sounds rough but maybe theres smth deeper going on? cant say for sure obvi but worth thinking abt right?
good point maybe something's off
Hey, I hear you. Panic attacks can be brutal, and it's like your body has a mind of its own. Those "just relax" people really don't get it; it's such an oversimplification. It's tough when others don’t take these episodes seriously, but there are folks out there who do get it. Maybe connecting with them can help make it feel less isolating? Keep finding your way... maybe one day people will actually offer support instead of clichés 🙄.
It's wild how people assume they can fix panic attacks with some generic "relax" advice. It's like, what part of "my brain's in meltdown mode" do they not get? I remember having one during a meeting and it felt like everyone thought I was just overreacting. The aftermath really is brutal. Who has time to just crash out because your body's decided to throw a fit? People need to realize it's not just “mind over matter” stuff. Keep doing you, and screw the ignorant crowd!
Crazy how people throw around "just relax" like it fixes everything, huh??? I had a buddy with panic attacks and he once blew up at a family dinner... everyone just sat awkwardly while he got himself back together. It's not just a simple snap of the fingers and you're good; these things can derail your whole day. Honestly, society needs to stop acting like there's an easy fix for what hits so deep.
I get the frustration when facing constant "just relax" remarks. It's like society has no idea how taxing panic attacks are, both mentally and physically! 🤯 But maybe it's worth trying to educate those around you, if you have the energy. They can't understand if they're stuck in clueless mode... Onward and upward though, one day at a time!
hey i hear you completely, panic attacks leave me wiped too... does your workplace offer any mental health support? mine started offering counseling sessions and it's been helpful to have someone professional to talk to regularly without scheduling hassles; also have you tried talking about this openly with your manager? sometimes they're more understanding than we expect.
thanks for sharing that could be useful
i never thought of asking management for help interesting suggestion