Wrong decisions
The story
I keep on taking nonstop wrong decisions even though at the time of taking them I don't realise the potential cons everytime. Some decisions I surely know that were wrong and some I am confuse that whether it was right or wrong. But I am never make decisions which are absolutely right for me ( or so I think).
I get anxiety attacks due to this.
At this point I think I should take any decision that I think are right, and out of say 3 decisions, if atleast 1 is right then I would be satisfied.
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Hey, I gotta say, this way of thinking doesn’t sit right with me;; Why are you settlin’ for 1 outta 3 decisions bein’ just "okay"? Sounds kind of like giving yourself a pass to screw up more than get it right, y’know… You sound too okay with messing up, and honestly, aren’t you tired of constantly going round in circles like a cat chasing its tail? 😼
I mean, we all mess up sometimes, that's natural, but hey, don't make it a habit; You gotta stop thinkin' that decisions are just random shots in the dark. 'Cause, from my experiences, second-guessing yourself constantly and expectin' to often fail before even tryin’, only puts ya on this never-ending loop of doubt and anxiety! When I'm in situations like this – there's usually a point half-baked confidence needs a reality check, instead of just hopin' when I chuck three darts at the board! I think you're better off if you rethink this; focus more on analyzing what went wrong with those questionable choices before making the same mistake over again!
I really resonate with your story. Decision-making is a complex process, isn't it? I get how tough it can be when the outcome is not always clear cut; You’re experimenting with a trial-and-error approach, which makes sense for navigating uncertainty. Sometimes we don’t know what's "right" until after. It's all about balancing risk and reward. Anxiety is understandable when stakes feel high. Just remember, learning from each choice is key. Your approach might just help find clarity in the confusion. Keep refining that strategy, and you may start noticing a trend toward better outcomes.
i totally get where ur coming from... decision-making is real hard, isn't it? u gotta deal with all these choices and hope at least one works out; 💭 i feel that in my own life too, like I'm always second-guessing. sometimes it seems like no matter how careful, the right call is never clear. sure, aiming for one correct decision out of a few is smart. but often feels like aiming in the dark.
hope it gets easier for both of us though 🙃