Dilemma

When did he last contact you? 😁

sending a simple message could potentially bridge the communication gap that currently exists. Besides, is there a particular reason that makes you hesitant to message him first??? 😅

honestly, you're overthinking this. in my experience, waiting around never helped anyone; it's like waiting for paint to dry while your favorite show is on. i once thought not messaging first kept some kind of balance or dignity, but then i missed out on heaps of conversations. reaching out doesn't have to be a drama. give it a shot and see where it goes, or you'll never find out, right? are you sure holding back is worth it???

maybe consider that if he's not talking, there might be a reason??? we don’t always understand what’s going on in someone else's mind. reaching out doesn’t necessarily mean you're weak, it's pretty normal; but what if he's waiting for you to make a move first too? why don’t you wanna message him first though?