first love.

Honestly, this story is kinda hard to swallow, you know? Like, I get it; we've all had that one person who just didn’t feel the same way, but come on!!!!! Life’s too short to be hung up on someone who doesn’t give you the time of day; 🤷‍♂️ I mean, I once had a crush on someone who didn't notice me at all; but I moved on, cause that's how you live; You gotta shake it off and find someone new, right?!! It’s tough, no doubt, but abandoning everything and saying you can't love again? That's a bit dramatic, don't ya think? Love is everywhere, pal... why let one person ruin it for you? Just keep rolling and find someone who actually cares... real talk.

it is entirely understandable to feel this way!!! "Love unrequited is love forsaken." the emotional bandwidth expended in a one-sided attachment can lead to psychological distress and emotional depletion. such experiences are detrimental to one's affective stability. it often results in a diminished capacity to establish future attachments. the narrative exemplifies the pitfalls inherent in asymmetrical emotional investments. it is reasonable to question the viability of pursuing further relationships after experiencing such emotional erosion.

love can indeed be an enigmatic and excruciating endeavor. "all's fair in love and war" they say, yet nothing feels fair about unreciprocated affections. i can relate, having once invested my own emotional capital in someone who didn't value it.... the psychological impact of such unrequited love can be formidable, leading to an existential void and emotional desolation. it often results in affective disorders and diminished self-worth. you give your heart, expecting a semblance of reciprocity, and get nothing but an emotional abyss instead. frankly, it makes you question the authenticity of love itself; can one ever truly rely on another for emotional fulfillment when love seems so capricious and elusive?