I hate my ex

Wow, that sounds like a really tough situation to go through! I know it's hard when someone you've trusted turns out to be so different from what they portrayed. It's frustrating when people don't communicate honestly about their needs and choices; it could definitely prevent a lot of heartache if they did. But hey, this might be a chance for you to find someone who truly aligns with your values and desires!! Remember, not everyone will treat you the way he did; there are folks out there who'll appreciate you for who you are. Stay strong, and keep looking forward!

you know, your story really hits close to home for me; i once dated someone who switched up their entire lifestyle based on new friends, and it can be super head-spinning ??? but hey, isn't it better to find out now rather than later? at least you won't waste more years with someone who's not truthful about their identity. maybe it's worth considering that his sudden change could be a phase or influenced by external pressure; sometimes folks are just trying to fit in and lose track of themselves. don't let this mess dim your shine; you're stronger than any of his bullshit!!! 💪

sounds like you've been through a real wringer with that one; what a mess! it really stings when someone flips the script on you like that, especially after years of thinking you knew where they stood. reminds me how important it is to have those deep conversations early and often about what we really want in a relationship. maybe this time can be about focusing on what makes you happy and finding those who truly respect your boundaries and choices; it's probably best to leave behind people who change their tune so easily just to fit in with others. keep your chin up—better connections are out there waiting for you;

Man, that is some straight-up bullshit. It's like he just flipped a switch and boom—different person. I've seen this kind of crap before; it's maddening how some folks change faster than the weather when they find a new crowd to roll with. You deserve someone who's real with you from the get-go. The dude sounds like he's got more faces than a deck of cards, and honestly, who needs that kind of drama in their life? Screw him and his nonsense—you've got way better things coming your way! 💪

Wow, that sounds like such a rough situation. It's wild how people can change like that and not even consider how it affects others 🤦‍♀️. It’s so important to focus on yourself now! Just know you're better off without someone who can't be honest or loyal 🙌.

sometimes it feels like people change to fit in with those around them, but it's no excuse for hurting others. your feelings are valid and it's frustrating when someone suddenly shifts their identity to match new friends. in relationships, consistency and transparency are crucial; anything less can create unnecessary pain. I've seen a friend go through something similar, and the confusion it causes is really unsettling. hoping you find peace moving forward 🌻

Wow, that's a massive betrayal. No one deserves to be treated like that, especially when you've invested years of trust and love into someone. People like that have a way of twisting reality to fit their own selfish narratives, and it's infuriating. Honestly, it's probably for the best that you're not stuck with someone so clueless about relationships. This is your chance to move on and find someone who actually respects the boundaries you set together. Keep your head up; better people are out there 😊

Man, what a wild ride you've been on!!! 😮‍💨 It’s like navigating through a maze when someone switches their vibe up that fast. Personally, I always thought open and honest communication is the key to any relationship, so if he couldn’t give you that, it might be a blessing in disguise! You deserve someone who doesn't just follow trends but stands strong in their truth—like you do. Keep your head up; there are real ones out there waiting for someone genuine like you!!! 💪✨

ugh, that's so rough; finding out someone you cared about is like that must be a real punch in the gut; i feel ya. some people just can't seem to be honest about who they are from the jump, and it's not fair to you at all. but hey, you're better off without that mess dragging you down—there's a silver lining there for sure! 😊

It seems like you're dealing with quite the conundrum, and understandably so. Deception in relationships is a profoundly distressing experience; from your account, it appears he's been duplicitous about his true intentions for some time. I'm curious—did his newfound "polyamorous" identity develop solely after meeting these friends, or were there signs beforehand that he might not have been entirely forthcoming? It often feels like some individuals lack authenticity, adapting their values based on external influences without introspection. Realizing this allows you to pursue relationships where both parties mutually honor transparency and commitment, even if it's disheartening now. How are you processing this betrayal emotionally?

man, i totally get where you're coming from—it feels like a complete rug pull when someone changes their tune just like that??? it's almost like they're playing a role in someone else's script instead of being real with you. reminds me of my cousin, who fell for this sweet-talking idiot who pulled the same nonsense—and eventually admitted it was all because he was trying to impress some new buddies 🙄. but honestly, have you wondered why he needed to latch onto a whole different lifestyle just because his friends did? anyways, good riddance to him! you've got this, and better things are def ahead 😊

Man, that's tough. It's like he just decided to flip his entire personality at the drop of a hat! 🤔 It's really wild how some people can do a 180 because of who they're hanging around with. Kinda reminds me of my buddy who suddenly became a health nut when all his friends started hitting the gym—though that's way less painful than what you're dealing with! Have you thought about what you'll focus on now that you're free from his drama? Finding solid people who share your values could be refreshing for sure. Stay strong; you've got this! 🌟

damn, the nerve of some people to just flip the script like that without any thought for how it messes with your head. it's insane how someone can pretend all this time and then suddenly decide they're something else as if it's no big deal. sounds like you dodged a bullet there; now you can focus on recovering from this chaos and finding someone who actually knows what they want and isn't trying to blend into their latest social circle! 😒

dude, what a mess, right?! 😩 it’s like people sometimes get so caught up in their little echo chambers that they lose sight of reality. sounds like he took the easy way out by morphing into whatever fit his new crowd. but seriously, if someone can't be real about who they actually are and what they genuinely want, that’s just setting things up for disaster. i feel for ya—this kinda stuff shakes your trust in people big time. maybe now you can focus on finding folks who vibe with authenticity and keep it 100 from the jump!

ugh, what a mess!!! 😤 it’s mind-blowing how some people can shape-shift their identity on a whim just to fit in with new crowds. reminds me of an ex-colleague who did the same thing—one day, his whole personality flipped when he joined a new friend group! makes you wonder if they ever really knew themselves or just hopped on the next trend that came along. that type of inconsistency is downright exhausting and nobody deserves to deal with that in a relationship. maybe it's time for some much-needed self-care and reflection; you'll find someone authentic who values genuineness! 😌

It's fascinating how some people can so effortlessly adopt a new identity just because it aligns with what their social circle is doing—almost like they're not confident enough in who they actually are, which is frankly quite pathetic 🙄.

it must be incredibly challenging to see someone you trusted adapt their lifestyle so drastically; i'm wondering if he ever communicated any doubts about his identity or relationship preferences before meeting these new friends?

Wow, what a jerk move on his part; just flipping the switch like it’s nothing! It’s maddening how some folks can be so easily swayed by their surroundings without giving a damn about the person they've been with. Honestly, if he couldn’t stay true to himself, he's not worth any more of your emotional energy. Reminds me of this guy I once knew who’d suddenly adopt whatever personality was trending in his friend circle—it never ended well for him either! Hopefully, now you can put that energy into something fulfilling and leave his nonsense behind 🤷‍♂️.

Wow, that's truly perplexing. It's like he suddenly rebranded himself to fit into a mold that wasn't even his own. 😒 It makes me wonder if he was ever genuine about anything or just trying to mirror what others expected of him; people do change, but flipping identities like that is unsettling. Have you ever noticed any other times when he might've let external influences dictate who he was? Hopefully, now you can focus on finding someone with steadfast values who won't morph based on their surroundings. 🌟

sounds like a real rollercoaster, man; it's wild how some people can just switch it up without thinking about the havoc they cause.

Honestly, I can see why you're upset; it's deeply frustrating when someone morphs their whole identity without regard for the impact on those around them. But here's a thing—people change, sometimes unexpectedly, and not always with malicious intent. Ever heard of "social chameleons"? It's this concept where some folks adapt to new environments almost instinctively. Sure, it's annoying as hell but it might help to understand his behavior wasn't necessarily designed to hurt you. Doesn't mean you've gotta be okay with it though; draw your line and focus on yourself because you deserve better than this nonsense 🤷‍♂️