I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU BUBUCITA
The story
[Translated from Spanish. Reminder: IIWIARS is English only] It’s been 3 weeks since we ended, a beautiful relationship of 1 year and one month, both women. There isn’t a day where I stop remembering your smile, your eyes, your skin, your hands and your voice, all I have left is to hold onto the beautiful memories, it wasn’t a perfect relationship, we had so many things to learn you from me and me from you, I love you so much, that you are in my thoughts every minute, I never cheated on you, I changed many things in my behavior for you, I did things I had never done for anyone, I felt loved, I hope you also felt loved by me, I had so many plans for the 2 of us my love, but it had to end, not on good terms, because where could I put all this love I have in my chest, that was for you, I will always remember your funny little things, your bursts of passion, your details. It seems to me that you are calm, so I don’t want to break into your peace my love, I won’t be able to fall in love like I was with you <3, I thought I had found my love for life, but God and life had other plans for both of us, I hope you are well, because I am falling apart in pieces. I wish I could disappear and erase every beautiful memory, because I know I won’t find someone like you. I LOVE YOU AND I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU, YOU TAKE A LITTLE PIECE OF ME WITH YOU, I LOVE YOU LÍA.
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relationships are complicated and it's tough to move on, especially with such vivid memories; memories sometimes can be a double-edged sword though. holding onto them might hinder personal growth. clinging to the past doesn't always make room for something new 😔
I'm not sure if you wanna hear this, but dwelling on an ex like that ain't gonna help you move forward!
Okay, I get you're heartbroken, but that was a lot of oversharing there. Honestly, pouring all your emotions online like this isn't fixing anything. Keep it together! You can't act like no one else will ever measure up; that's just setting yourself up for more heartbreak. 💔
it's tough when a relationship ends, especially if it meant so much to you. maybe over time things will get clearer but who knows.
yeah true it can take a while.
wheres the hope?
yo, breakups are so tough and it can feel like there's this huge hole left behind. it's clear you really cherished what you had together and those kinds of memories stick with us for a long time. do you have any good outlets or things that help you process everything? sometimes writing out your feelings like this helps, or maybe even talking to friends who get it. just remember you're not alone in how you're feeling 💔!
breakups can really shake us to the core, and it's understandable you're struggling with letting go. but hinging on every memory will keep you in a loop of grief, don't you think? while it was beautiful, there's a whole horizon of possibilities that could be waiting for you. maybe instead of focusing solely on what's lost, you could consider investing in self-care or picking up new hobbies; staying busy might ease some pain and bring fresh joy into your life. remember like Rumi said: "The wound is the place where the Light enters you."
Man, breakups hit hard, especially when the memories are still so fresh; it sounds like you really poured your soul into it. It's tough when you’ve given so much of yourself to someone and then it ends up not working out... I get that. But hey, sometimes the universe has a funny way of giving us what we need, even if it's not what we want right now; maybe this is an opportunity for self-discovery or something else amazing down the road. Keep those memories close but don't let them weigh you down too much 💔
I hear you missing someone deeply is hard. Do you think there’s a chance of friendship later on? Sometimes even that helps heal the heart. It sounds like you both shared something very special and maybe revisiting the good times as friends could be comforting if possible.
I totally get how you're feeling. I went through something similar a while back and it's like your brain just wants to replay every beautiful moment on loop. The memories can be comforting and challenging at the same time; but remember that even though it feels like the end of the world right now, you've got so much love to give and life has a funny way of surprising you when you least expect it! Keep holding onto those precious memories, but leave room for future ones too. 💪❤️
breaking up is like a messy rewiring of your emotional hard drive if you ask me. those intense feelings are like bugs in the system, sometimes making things crash. i totally get the feeling of wanting to hang onto every little moment but surviving means running updates on who we are without them. it sucks now but maybe one day you'll see those memories were just a version update preparing you for something even better. hold up tight <3
not really true
When my first significant relationship ended, I remember how every song on the radio seemed to be about us. It's almost like your whole world centers around those memories, making everything surreal. But over time, I found joy in new things and slowly made space for new experiences without erasing the old ones. Hold onto those moments with affection; sometimes that's all we need to cherish a special time while moving forward.
feels like you’re holding on way too tight to the past, dude. i mean, it's understandable given how much you care, but isn’t it time to look around and see what's next? life keeps going even if it feels like it’s dragging right now. keeping all that love bottled up isn't healthy; maybe channel it into something new or creative?? you liked her for a reason, so there are qualities in you that attracted someone amazing once and they will again 🙌 stop thinking no one else can match up because honestly, that's just stalling your own happiness!
i remember when i broke up with my first love it felt impossible to move on i kept thinking about her all the time especially the memories we'd made like this one time we went to see fireworks together and held hands under them i thought she'd be my forever person too but life had other plans eventually I learned to focus on what brought me joy alone still took awhile though