i need him and he needs me but neither of us can admit it

man, I totally get where you're coming from, it's like they say, you never know what you've got until it's gone; but honestly, I kinda disagree with all the drama, like why put yourself through all this emotional turmoil? 😅 trust me, I've been there; I once pined over someone for ages and thought they were perfect for me, but looking back, I was just obsessing over an idea rather than the real person; it's tough to let go, but maybe some distance could clear things up, like sometimes being too attached blinds you to red flags or maybe even better options out there; you deserve peace and to feel happy, not stuck in this loop of longing; it's hard, but maybe focusing on yourself could show you if this is really worth all the stress; I hope things get clearer for you soon!

I FEEL YOUUUUUUUUUU but it's ok! just tell him how you feel and uh that should help!

u gotta chill with the obsession, seriously. i get it, feelings are strong and all, but hanging onto something that never kicked off sounds kinda self-destructive. like, you’re putting all this energy into someone who was too scared to even try, you know? been there before and it's basically torture. have you thought about how much you're holding yourself back by focusing on what might've been instead of what's actually happening? just wondering, but could all that time and emotion be better spent on yourself or someone who's ready for the real deal? not saying your feelings aren't valid, but sometimes letting go turns out to be the best thing you never knew you needed. just my two cents, do what feels right.

man, i feel you so much on this one, it's like when you find someone who feels like "THE ONE," it's impossible to just get over them; been through a similar thing and it just eats away at you, it's like that phrase "the heart wants what it wants" 💔 totally agree, he should've been more upfront with his feelings; i remember this one time, I was so hooked on this guy who kept sending mixed signals and it left me all confused and torn; you can't just forget someone like flipping a switch, and it's super frustrating when it's all up in the air; the whole "I wasn't good enough" excuse feels like such a cop-out sometimes; i mean, like, why not just give things a shot and see how it goes instead of pre-deciding it'll end badly? but yeah, living with the regret of not doing anything is tough, hope you find some peace with this whole sitch; 😔

i totally feel this so hard; it's rough when you can't just, like, delete someone from your brain. ugghhh. the emotional roller coaster you're on is intense, can't be easy at all. i get how it feels to be in that limbo where everything's so messed up and confusing. been there, done that 🥲. i remember thinking about someone night and day; seriously messed with my head for a while. but it's important to remember that sometimes you gotta take a step back to see the situation clearly. have you thought about what you’d want to say to him if you got the chance? could ease your mind a little—or maybe just freak you out more, who knows! but hey, whatever happens, remember it’s okay to put yourself first through this chaos. wishing you some clarity soon.

it sounds like you both are stuck in this weird limbo of feelings and miscommunication 😲

maybe it's worth considering if this intense focus on him is clouding your ability to see things objectively?

I get where you're coming from, but maybe it's time to consider if this fixation on him is truly worth all the mental anguish. Sometimes we tend to idealize a person who wasn't even fully invested in the first place; it's like building a fantasy around someone instead of seeing them for who they really are. It's tough, I know, but perhaps redirecting that energy towards self-discovery and growth could bring more fulfillment in the long run. Who knows, maybe letting go of this attachment could open doors to unexpected opportunities and connections that align better with where you're headed. Just food for thought, take care of yourself through this emotional storm!

Honestly, it sounds like you're caught in this emotional vortex where you both might be over-romanticizing the whole situation 🤔. This idea of "THE MAN" can be a risky illusion; sometimes we build people up so much in our heads, they become untouchable fantasies rather than real options. Plus, if he ended things because he didn't feel "good enough," maybe that's revealing about his own insecurities and readiness for a relationship 🕵️‍♂️. Having these intense feelings is understandable but trusting yourself to not let them consume you is key. Anyway, ever thought about what life would look like focusing on your passions or goals instead? Sometimes shifting focus can create the space needed for clarity and growth!

dude, i feel you like a hundred percent. there's something about those "almost" relationships that just sticks with you, right? it’s like they’re more haunting cuz of all the possibilities and ‘what ifs.’ but sometimes, I think we hold onto this idea that someone was perfect for us without considering if maybe we're just seeing them through rose-colored glasses. have you ever thought about what makes him the ONE or if he might have some flaws you're glossing over? i had a similar situation once and found talking to someone neutral really helped me figure out what was real vs. what i wanted to be real. it's tough when feelings are all tangled up, but make sure you're not ignoring your own needs in the process. honestly, throwing yourself into things you love or discovering new interests can be surprisingly healing. hoping you find some clarity soon!

sounds like you're right in the thick of a classic "grass is greener" situation 🌱. sometimes our mind builds up this idealized version of someone, which makes it extra tough to really let go when things don't pan out. i get that it's frustrating with all the mixed signals and unresolved feelings, but maybe there's value in reflecting on whether he truly fits into your life beyond just being a fantasy? 🤔. have you thought about what qualities make him irreplaceable or if they're unique to him alone? it's easy to get trapped in what could've been, but there might be someone out there who's actually free from those same doubts and hang-ups. anyways, hope you find peace because dragging around this emotional baggage can get heavy real quick!