I think I lose my mind

Hey, I get where you're coming from; honestly, it's tough to keep going through that cycle of hope and disappointment. But honestly, I'm not sure I completely get the whole "love is disgusting" thing?? Sure, we all have some bomb relationships that leave scars, but love ain't always the problem, you know? It's like blaming the rain 'cause you forgot your umbrella... There've been times when I felt super alone too, pulling back on everything and everyone because that's just how it feels sometimes when you're hit hard; but avoiding relationships altogether might not solve the issue.

I remember I used to think the same way after a big breakup I had; she had her own issues, and yeah, it hurt big time. Still, it taught me to look at things differently, like not everyone out there is gonna mess you up?! It's okay to take a break, but don't let those past experiences hold too much weight; maybe try reaching out to people again, start small... You never know who might surprise you, just sayin'.

hey, i totally see why you're feeling this way, but I gotta say, isn't it a bit intense to say love makes you feel sick??? relationships can be tricky, dealing with narcissists and emotional burnout is no joke, but not everyone is set on draining you emotionally or leaving you empty-handed. there's always this complexity in attachment styles and emotional investment that can make things go south, but not all connections are doomed to fail.

there was a period when i, too, felt like retreating into a solitude bubble 'cause connecting with folks seemed too risky. but eventually, letting down my defenses a little helped me rediscover some pretty genuine connections. sure, being cautious is smart, but don't shut out every potential meaningful interaction; it might be like throwing the baby out with the bathwater, you know?! take your time, but maybe give it another shot when you're ready... you might get surprised!

i hear you, and what you're going through is definitely tough. however, saying love is disgusting seems a bit over the top; it's more about your experiences with certain people, not love itself, right? we all have our ups and downs, and yeah, sometimes relationships fall apart and leave us feeling like crap, but isn't that part of learning what works for us and what doesn't? finding the right connection can be hard, no doubt 🙃

you mention feeling numb, and that can be a really isolating experience. pulling back and focusing on work is one way to cope, but don't you think staying open to new experiences might eventually help? sometimes it's just about giving yourself time to heal before diving back in, not completely giving up on connections. who knows, things might start feeling a bit more normal sooner than you think. take your time, and see where things go; just keep in mind there are still good, caring people out there!

i understand where you're coming from, but asserting that "love doesn’t feel beautiful anymore" might be more linked to past experiences than love itself. having endured tumultuous relationships can certainly impact one's perception, but isn't it crucial to evaluate each situation individually rather than generalize? navigating the complexities of interpersonal connections can be challenging, with emotional labor and cognitive dissonance playing significant roles.

there was a time when I, too, felt disillusioned by love after a string of relationships that went south. however, embracing a mindset of cautious optimism eventually allowed me to appreciate the multifaceted nature of love. one mustn't forget that emotional resilience can pave the way for healthier connections, though it takes time and self-reflection. in my opinion, healing and finding joy in new experiences could slowly shift your perspective; perhaps consider exploring these avenues at your own pace?

totally get why you'd feel this way. people can suck and make love feel awful. sometimes it is not even worth the emotional investment. those narcissistic types drain all your energy. love can get really messy, especially when you give a lot and get nothing back.

it's no surprise you feel numb now. anyone would. focusing on work and avoiding new relationships? makes perfect sense. stay strong and protect your mental health; sometimes solitude is the best way to recharge. maybe someday, love won't feel like such a burden. 🤷‍♂️

i feel you, but saying "love is disgusting" might be more about the people you've been with than love itself. bad experiences can really mess with your head, but not everyone is like those who hurt you. when you talk about feeling numb, it hits home for me too. been there after a toxic relationship where emotional manipulation made me question everything.

we gotta remember that emotional bandwidth changes from person to person, and healing takes its own sweet time. there are still good folks out there who won't drain your energy. maybe giving it time and space could help change your perspective when you're ready; love can still be an amazing thing! ❤️

i get you're feeling burned by past experiences, but isn't it a bit much to say love is disgusting? yeah, there are a lot of jerks out there who might make love feel like a bad joke, but not everyone is gonna let you down. instead of writing off love entirely, maybe it's worth considering if there's something to learn from those relationships.

you say you're feeling numb and burying yourself in work. isn't that just running away from the problem? what happens when the work ends? it's great to take some time for yourself, but isolating completely might not help in the long run. have you thought about exploring ways to rediscover that part of you that still craves connection? looking at the world with a bit more hope could open up possibilities you haven't considered yet. maybe there's something different waiting for you out there if you give it a shot. 🤔

man, i totally feel you on this one!!! it's like every time you think you've found something real, it turns out to be just another disappointment. those narcissistic types really do a number on you, making it hard to trust again and you give so much of yourself, only to end up with nothing in return.

it's no wonder you're feeling numb and pulling back. i've been there, just shutting out the world cause it all seems too much. thinking about love just makes me tired these days; maybe it’s safer to just keep to yourself and focus on stuff that doesn't let you down. it doesn't always feel worth it to open up again when all you get is heartache. love these days doesn't feel like it used to, right? who knows if it'll ever really feel okay again??

i completely get what you’re saying. relationships can be a real emotional quagmire. constantly giving so much of yourself, only to be met with disappointment and emotional bankruptcy, can be truly disheartening. being with someone narcissistic can taint your view on everything love stands for; it really leaves a mark.

i went through a similar ordeal, and it felt like love lost its luster. i'm left wondering if anyone's intentions are genuinely pure anymore. emotional resilience begins to fade after so many failed connections. honestly, it can feel like a never-ending cycle of frustration and heartbreak 😔. it makes you question whether opening up to someone new is even worth the potential letdown. sometimes, it seems easier to stay guarded and save oneself from the pain. loving again feels uncertain and maybe even impossible. 🌧️