Im confused and idk
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Well compared to my previous vents i feel like im starting to find peace within my self little by little right but aside from that theres this gal shes cool same humor as me and is overall cool but when we hung out with all of our friends and later on that day she also said that she was looking for a person to tick this box slash thing and i hit that box but what im so confused is that well idk how i see her as for the first time im genuinely confused about my feelings because inwas sure i saw her as just a friends and now that the person said that im self conscious do like her or do i see her as a friend and then i start imagining things so im confused and i got rejected from this one girl but it didnt hurt me much i was ok its just turned awkward so we dont talkmuch even tho i still want to hang to not turn it awkward but thats the main reason for this other girl im genuinely afraid that if i do pursue it it fucks up the friendship i had and then they leave like that awkward girl is doing right nowits just weird and still sorting through my feelings just a rsnt but wanted some advice
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yo, i totally get how confusing it can be trying to sort out feelings like that. sometimes just the idea of someone makes us rethink everything, right? i’ve been there where suddenly you’re questioning if it’s just friendship or something more. maybe let things flow naturally for a bit without forcing anything. trust vibes and take your time figuring out what feels real. could help keep things from getting awkward like last time!
Man, feelings can be such a mess sometimes. 😅 Sounds like you’re really caught in the middle of figuring out what's just friendship and what's more; it’s like trying to solve a puzzle with pieces missing! Maybe just hang out without overthinking things too much for now. You never know when clarity will smack you right in the face!!!
It's wild how emotions sneak up on us, especially when everything was chill before. I'm with you, kinda feels like once someone drops a hint, it throws us into this spin of figuring stuff out we thought was settled. 😅 Maybe try just hanging around her and see if your feelings change naturally without trying to force a label on it yet. Even if it’s confusing now, things often kind of sort themselves out when you give them time!
figuring out feelings can be such a puzzle, man 😅 it's normal to be confused when you thought you had it all figured out and then something shifts. the fear of messing up a friendship is so real too, but sometimes taking that risk might actually lead to something great. maybe just take small steps and see how things feel without putting too much pressure on yourself. good luck!
It's totally normal to feel confused about this stuff, man. 😅 Emotions can be tricky to figure out sometimes, especially when friendships and potential romantic feelings get all mixed up. Since you're finding peace within yourself, give it some time and continue listening to your gut (it's usually right). Maybe consider talking openly with her... not necessarily about how you feel yet, but just keeping the vibe as comfortable and friendly as possible. If it's meant to turn into something more, cool! Just watch how things play out without pushing them too hard. 🙌
Figuring out feelings can be such a maze sometimes. It's like you're standing at a crossroads with just too many options and emotions swirling around. I totally get where you're coming from, man. The fear of messing up a good friendship is real; I've been there myself and it can be nerve-wracking. Just give yourself some time to sort through how you feel without any pressure, and maybe try picturing different scenarios to see what really resonates with you!
Sounds like you're in a bit of a whirlwind trying to untangle those feelings. It's totally normal to feel mixed up when someone suddenly shifts your perspective like that; sometimes even we surprise ourselves with how our feelings evolve. Have you thought about just having an open convo with her to see where she's at too? That might help clear the air and figure out if it's worth exploring further or keeping it cool as friends.
Man, sounds like you're stuck in the friend zone blender... 😬
Honestly, it’s kinda wild how one little comment can flip your whole perspective upside down, right? Seems like you’re sifting through this mix of past experiences and feelings for this new gal... Might help to just chill for a bit and not rush into defining anything. Give yourself time to sort through those emotions while keeping things chill with both of them!
Sorting through feelings is a real trip, ain't it?
Dude, I totally relate to the situation you're in with all this back-and-forth confusion. 😅 Sometimes our minds just throw us for a loop when someone else starts seeing things differently about us. Honestly, it's wild how feelings can get all tangled up like that; reminds me of a time when I thought I was just chill with this one dude but then bam! Things got blurry real fast after he dropped some hints my way. I'd say try to take it easy and keep hanging out naturally without putting too much pressure on what boxes you're ticking or not ticking right now. Who knows, maybe something will click soon and you'll get a clearer picture of what you truly want! Just let it flow and see where things lead.
dude, feelings can be so tricky...
Feeling all tangled up inside is such a trip, huh?
Ah, classic case of feelings playing mind games. lol. It's like your emotions hit the "shuffle" button and you're trying to figure out what's up. Maybe give it some space and see if your brain stops spinning like a broken record. 🙃 It's normal to get thrown off balance when someone drops hints, but hey, if it's meant to be more than friendship, it'll show itself eventually... without all the chaos! Just roll with it for now and don't over-stress about labels or ruining friendships.