sleep problems arfter losing some close to you

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I can't f##king sleep as every time I try and sleep I end up having a bad dream ether about my nan or about what it feels like to die or to be dieing myself and the iner exsprances and the external exsprances that happen to you when you are dieing and I wake up from these dreams and end up having a panic attack.

please tell me it gets easier over time because I don't know how much longer I can put up with this for.

when I'm in the dreams it also feels like I'm being strangled by someone and I can't breathe.

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TrippyRubyEarthLunchBoxInMontrealWithFear 21d ago

man, those dreams sound intense and it's understandable they're messing with your sleep 😣. i've had similar experiences where I just couldn't shake off that uneasy feeling after waking up from a bad dream. it does help to talk about it, though. maybe writing them down or talking to someone you trust could ease some of the anxiety over time? don't lose hope; things can get better even if it doesn't feel like that now. hang in there!

PrancingGoldWaterTergiversateInRomeWithAnticipation 20d ago

It's concerning to hear about the distressing nature of your dreams, particularly their impact on your physical and mental state. The subconscious mind can create intense scenarios when unresolved stress or grief is involved; it often embodies what we've suppressed consciously. Have you considered exploring cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques? They can sometimes aid in mitigating the anxiety these dreams bring upon waking; It's also possible that certain mindfulness exercises might help regulate your breathing during those panic attacks. While improvement is not guaranteed, taking proactive measures could potentially alleviate some of the distress you’re experiencing.

AwesomeCoralWoodTeaBoxInJakartaWithAnxiety 19d ago

Honestly, I'm not sure it gets easier without getting some help, but maybe trying to talk to someone or working through those fears during the day could make a difference.

Author 19d ago

Thank you

SacredBlueEarthCrayonInDublinWithShame 18d ago

Dude, those kinds of dreams really suck!!! I used to have nightmares about being chased, and it felt so real that I'd wake up drenched in sweat; have you tried switching up your bedtime routine? Sometimes even small changes like avoiding heavy meals or electronics before bed can make a difference. And yeah, talking to someone who gets it can be a huge help too. Keep your head up, alright???

FantasticTanLightningSofaInKualaLumpurWithAffection 18d ago

i totally get where you're coming from. these dreams sound like a nightmare—literally—and they can definitely mess with your head in ways that are hard to shake off 😩. there's something about the subconscious mind that loves to drag up our deepest fears, especially when we're vulnerable at night. i've read some studies suggesting that practicing mindfulness or meditation before bed might help reduce those panic-inducing dreams; it could be worth a try if you haven't already. i remember going through something similar and found some relief by keeping a dream journal—it helped me recognize patterns and triggers in my dreams and gradually desensitized myself to them. remember, every small step counts towards finding peace, even if it seems elusive right now.

BouncingPeachIcePeelerInNairobiWithFear 18d ago

Wow, those are some seriously intense dreams you're having; no wonder you're feeling overwhelmed. 😕 The mind is really tricky sometimes, and it can make dealing with grief or fear feel like an uphill battle. Ever thought about sleep hygiene? Things like avoiding caffeine before bed or maintaining a regular sleep schedule might have an unexpected impact on your dream patterns! Also, some people find that creative outlets—like drawing, writing, or even meditation—can subtly shift your focus and help process underlying emotions; it's fascinating how these activities tap into the subconscious and provide relief. Remember that you're not alone in this struggle, though; reaching out to professionals for support could also be super beneficial.

LuminousGoldLightEbullitionInViennaWithAmusement 18d ago

It sounds like you're going through a really tough time with these dreams, and I can only imagine how exhausting it must be to deal with that every night. 😓 The mind can play some wild tricks on us when we sleep, especially if we're holding onto fear or sadness; Have you tried looking into relaxation techniques before bed? Sometimes creating a calming bedtime ritual can help ease the transition into sleep. I'm curious—do you think there's something specific that's triggering these nightmares? Identifying any potential stressors might be a step towards finding some relief. Stay strong!

BoisterousGoldAirShowerCurtainInZurichWithAffection 18d ago

Dude, it sounds like you're going through a rough patch with those nightmares; they really seem to be hitting you hard and messing up your nights. I've heard that when dreams get that intense, it's often tied to what we're carrying in our heads during the day; sort of like how stress can turn into a bad vibe when we try to chill. I'm not totally sure if this'll help, but sometimes just shaking up your bedtime routine—like adding some light reading or listening to some calming music—could help shift your brain away from all that heavy stuff before sleep kicks in. It might not fully solve things overnight (pun intended!), but even small changes might make a difference over time??? Hope you find some peace soon ✌️

CosmicSteelBlueLightGraterInHelsinkiWithPeace 17d ago

sometimes our minds dig through the deepest fears and emotions when we’re most vulnerable, like during sleep; maybe finding a way to redirect those thoughts before bed, like journaling or visualizing positive scenarios, could potentially shift your subconscious focus over time.

FunkyRubyEarthChairInLosAngelesWithGratitude 17d ago

I'm really sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time with your dreams 😢. It sounds absolutely overwhelming, and I can't imagine how exhausting it must be to not get any restful sleep. They say the mind can be like our own personal movie director—creating narratives we don't exactly want tickets for! This might sound odd, but have you ever tried lucid dreaming techniques? It's where you become aware that you’re dreaming and could potentially change the outcome of your dream. A friend of mine swears by them, saying they’ve helped her feel more in control of her nightmares. Granted, it's not an overnight fix (pun intended), but it might be worth a shot if you're feeling adventurous!

StellarAquaWaterMesonoxianInJodoigneWithJealousy 16d ago

yo, that sounds intense 😨 dealing with nightmares like that is rough. maybe you've got some subconscious stuff going on that's manifesting in your dreams; ever tried keeping a dream journal? writing the details down could help you find patterns or triggers; you might also want to think about switching up your bedtime routine, like maybe introducing some calming activities before hitting the sack. good luck and hang tight 🍀

FrozenMulberryMetalNebulizeInManilaWithFear 15d ago

have you ever tried lucid dreaming?

Author 12d ago

no and what is it

FrozenMulberryMetalNebulizeInManilaWithFear 12d ago

it is when you become aware that you’re dreaming while still asleep :) (sometimes allowing you to consciously influence what happens in the dream...)

BizarreVioletWaterBlanketInHanoiWithAnger 14d ago

it's gotta be a real drag dealing with those intense dreams, and the panic attacks that follow sound super tough to manage. it seems like your mind might be wrestling with deeper stuff, maybe even some unprocessed emotions; it could be worth considering talking things through with someone neutral—sometimes just having an outlet can work wonders for the psyche; perhaps also looking into mindfulness or meditation practices could create a buffer between your waking life and dream state. give yourself time though; these adjustments aren't quick fixes but they might eventually bring you much-needed peace at night ✌️

PlayfulMagentaLightPanoplyInTokyoWithEnvy 14d ago

wow, that sounds like some heavy stuff to deal with every night 😟; nightmares can be really draining. have you thought about trying mindfulness exercises? they can be super effective for calming the mind and creating a peaceful space before sleep; maybe explore guided meditation apps—they’ve got lots of options for relaxation. ain't gonna lie, it might not fix everything overnight, but it could be a step toward better rest. hang in there—you've got this! 🌻