just another friend problem
The story
okay, so i have this one friend that i started to get close to. it was going great but then she started like ask me to do stuff for her. its just simple stuff like can you take that for me can you come with me to pick up my stuff and all. were roomates. but sometimes until she's bugging me. in our room we use like double decker beds.
and she would ask me to get her stuff all the time that im starting to get tired of it. she literally just had to get up and walk two steps. but instead she had to ask me thats like laying down on my bed and sleeping or whatever
i was sleeping on top. she slept at the bottom. i was literally sleeping and she woke me up to ask me to close the lights. and she literally wont close it until i did it. she was doing her assignment until like 2 am and woke me up to close the damn lights.
then sometimes she would leave me to talk to her other friends and left me alone. and she would always ask me to get her stuff that she ordered. its like 5 minutes walk away from the pick up point. again, i was sleeping and she woke me up to get it with her. i was super tired at the moment but i went anyway bcs she doesn't want to pick it up alone. i declined like for five days she wont go without me.
then, when i ask her to come get my stuff with me. shes like oh where? then i said just at the guard house. okay then when i went to pick it up she left me to walk with her other friends and when i asked why she didn't come with me she said oh i probably didn't hear you, i was wearing earpods.
shes like always being sarcastic like saying she dont want to and that shes lazy at the moment.
so i start to decline whenever she asked me to go anywhere with her and started hanging out more with my other friends. then she blamed me saying she's starting to be quite around people because of me. that her mental drained because of me. and always like, when did you get so close to this person to that person.
but, whenever i explained that i felt more like a servant than a friend all she does is laugh it off and does it again. idk how many times i said this in like a serious manner and she just kept like laughing.
now she always looks at me weird whenever i said im going out with my friends she looks at me like she dont want me to.
how do i get her to understand that i like her as a friend but i dont like the way she treats me 🥲🥲