kinda dying inside
The story
so i've talked about a person twice before, first vent she was Imogen second vent she was known as just A. And I like her. Like REALLY like her and idek why.
But now...
I have another friend, I've also vented about her before, in which she was known as Katy. Yesterday we were chilling during dismissal as school, she had stolen one of my earbuds and I think I had Everywhere Everything by Noah Kahan playing... either that or Kirari by Fujii Kaze. and she had stolen my hand, like she always does (it's just a normal thing, she likes to hold my hand) and she kissed me on the hand which she always does it's normal I'm used to that...
then she kissed me on the cheek.
That is not something she always does.
I think I might like her now.
but she's taken.
so now I like two people who are BOTH TAKEN.
why is it that I always like people who are taken....
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Wow, that sounds like quite a situation! 😅 It looks like your feelings are pretty tangled up right now; funny how emotions can be so unpredictable, right??? Totally get how confusing it must be when friends start acting differently. Who knows what the future holds?! Keep being you, and things might fall into place sooner or later. 😄 Hang in there and keep smiling!!!
It's quite the messy situation you've got there! 🤔 I get how emotions can catch you off guard like that, but have you thought about what you're really looking for in a relationship? It's tough crushing on people who are already taken, but maybe it's a sign to focus on yourself first. Sometimes, what we think is like or love might just be admiration or attachment, you know? Once, I had a similar experience with someone I thought I liked, but eventually, I realized it was more about how they made me feel special than genuine romantic feelings. Why do you think you're drawn to people who are off-limits? Could it be the thrill or something else?
It's like your emotional radar is locked onto unavailable targets; happens to the best of us. Honestly, it might be worth it to give yourself some breathing room. I've been there, crushing on someone who wasn't available, and it sucked big time, but it taught me to focus on people who are actually reachable. Why get stuck in this loop, right?? Stay positive and look out for someone who's really available!!!
Man, I totally get it, that's some complicated stuff you're dealing with 😅. It's like your heart's got a thing for the impossible, right? Crazy how when you think you've got feelings sorted, they just go and pull a stunt on you! I've been there, falling for those who are already off the market, and it's a wild ride for sure; but sometimes you just gotta let it ride out and see where it takes ya. Keep your chin up, things have a funny way of working themselves out when you least expect it. Just don’t sweat it too much, life’s too short for that nonsense! 😄
It's quite a precarious situation you've found yourself in. I understand the emotional complexities, but perhaps your focus might be better directed toward individuals who are available; it might be more rewarding in the long run. Engaging with those who are taken might lead to undesirable outcomes. I've observed similar situations where pursuing unattainable connections led to emotional distress. Why do you think this pattern keeps recurring in your life? Maybe exploring that could offer some clarity. 🤔