teenage confession.
The story
Imagine how many messages have been written and deleted, how many things have gone unsaid? How many songs have been placed in the notes, right there and right for that person? For only that person to see? Surely many... Has everyone done this? Today I was watching Brazilian films and looking at blogs, abandoned in 2014 and 2017, and I don't know, I got thoughtful. How many teenagers aren't just like us? They have the same ideas, tastes... How many teenagers haven't grown up and become those boring adults? I keep thinking about it. I wish I was a teenager forever... forever young! Is 30 really the age of success? By then, I want to have a career taking off, and MAYBE a decent boyfriend. But that doesn't matter... Do you think we should date at 15? And in adolescence in general, I see girls showing off their boyfriends on social media with cute trends and I keep thinking about it... Does dating make you lose your youth? I think you should have balance, but having a boyfriend must be really cool! I've been with guys, but I've never really dated, wow, have you ever thought about that? I guess I'm not the only one who thinks about it? Well, at 18, I think about it.
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yeah, balancing growing up and staying young is a tough nut to crack. it's like what you said, how many songs or notes just sit there unsaid? we all do that at times – keep thoughts or feelings on the back burner. i get being nostalgic about teenage years; they feel limitless in their own way. but don't stress too much about dating now; balance is key anyway, right? your career and goals are important too. dating will come naturally when the time's right. focus on experiencing life's moments as they come!
I'll try to enjoy life's moments, thank you very much! Growing up doesn't seem so scary when I read people's perspectives :)
Man, you're stuck in that teen nostalgia loop like it's "Groundhog Day" or something. 🤦♂️ Look, everyone's got unsent messages and unwritten songs, but that's part of life, not some profound mystery. You act like adulthood is this boring wasteland – not true. It's different, sure, but not necessarily bad. If you think dating will ruin your youth, maybe you just ain't met the right person yet. Let's be real here: 30 ain’t some magical milestone for success; it’s just another number. Focus on living now instead of obsessing over what age you'll be successful at. Trust me, life's way more chill if you take it one day at a time instead of stressin' over the clock!
I needed to read this, thank you so much.
sounds like you're caught up in that classic "eternal youth" ideal; just remember, every age has its own charm. being 18 is all about exploring and figuring out what you really want, not just following what everyone else does or shows online. dating at any age can be fun if it's genuine and enhances who you are; don't stress about whether it makes you lose your youth. adults aren't automatically boring – they can be surprisingly cool once life's responsibilities balance out a bit. enjoy now while keeping an eye on what truly matters to you; so much to explore as time unfolds!
Thank you very much for your point of view, I admit that I never thought like that and I was being a bit silly to think the way I was, every age must have its charm, growing up must not be so scary.
It's wild how much we overthink life stages, right? 😅 Sometimes I feel like we're pressured to hit these imaginary checkmarks by certain ages. I mean, who decided 30 is the age of success anyway? Your journey is uniquely yours; don't let societal standards stress you out too much. As for dating at 15 – it's all about what feels right for you. Just remember, relationships should add value to your life, not take away from it; there's plenty of time to figure it all out while you're enjoying your youth!
I'm going to try to enjoy my youth, without stressing about the future, I'm crazy about the movie "Going on 30" I think that's where I got the idea that 30 is the age of success, thanks for the point of view!
I've definitely been there, pondering over unread or unwritten messages and those unsaid words tucked away in our minds. It's interesting how the digital traces of our youth, like blog posts from 2014 or 2017, bring back waves of nostalgia; they’re like time capsules. Being forever young does have a charm, especially when life seemed simpler and less burdened with responsibilities. But I've found that every age has its own kind of success—30 doesn't have to be some magical milestone. As for dating at 15? Honestly, I didn't really know what I wanted back then; relationships can be great but it's all about knowing yourself first. Embrace each phase of life and let things unfold in their own time; there's beauty in the unexpected moments!
dude, you seriously hit the nail on the head with all those unsaid things and abandoned blogs. i totally get that thoughtful vibe when looking back at teen years. it's crazy how much we keep to ourselves, right? not gonna lie, being forever young sounds tempting as hell, but every age has its ups and downs. i've always thought there's no rush with dating – it'll happen when it should. chasing after youth feels like trying to hold onto sand slipping through your fingers. just gotta enjoy what you've got now and make the most of where you are. life's phases come and go, but each one brings its own kind of adventure!
i get the whole fascination with staying young and the mystery of unsaid things, but honestly, life’s more about how you grow through different phases. it's like a song—every verse adds layers to the melody. i wouldn’t stress too much about timelines or what society says 30 should be; it's your path at your pace. and about dating at 15? i feel like it's more about exploring who you are rather than ticking off relationship boxes for social media validation. think of each age as a new chapter in a book that only gets richer with experience. don't worry too much about finding balance; it'll come when you're focusing on what genuinely makes you happy.
Man, you sound like you're caught up in this fantasy that adulthood's some kind of perpetual prison. It's not all doom and gloom; there's stuff to enjoy at every age if you stop obsessing over arbitrary milestones. The dating question ain't gotta be so philosophical—just dive in when it feels right instead of seeking permission from society or whatever 🤔; trust your gut on that one. And those "unsaid" moments? That's life—it's messy and complex, not some tragic song lyric waiting to happen. Forget 30 as an age of success; just find what works for YOU now!
you talk about wanting to be forever young, but honestly, it's not all that it's cracked up to be; endless youth would probably just mean endless confusion and drama. 😅 i get why you're caught up on the nostalgia trip with all those unwritten messages and abandoned blogs, but life moves forward whether we like it or not. being 30 ain't some magical age of achievement either; life's milestones happen at different times for everyone. as for dating at 15, man, most of us didn't have a clue what we were doing – relationships should come when they feel right rather than feeling forced into them 'cause everyone else is. focus on what makes you happy now instead of worrying about whether you're hitting imaginary markers in adulthood!
oh boy, the nostalgia and longing for a simpler time can hit hard, can't it? 🤔 there's a charm to those years when uncertainty felt like an adventure rather than anxiety. but let me tell you from my personal experience as someone past 30; life doesn’t stop being interesting just because you're older. it's more about what you make of each stage onwards! about dating at 15? i think it's less about losing youth and more about discovering who you are and what matters to you in a partner... which is quite essential; every person brings something different into our lives that can teach us so much. instead of worrying too much, maybe focus on enjoying every delightful chaos that comes with growing up!
You know, it's interesting to think about all those drafts and abandoned blogs—they're like snapshots of moments when we couldn't quite find the right words. But dwelling too much on what's unspoken might just be keeping you from living in the present. While the allure of staying forever young is tempting, every phase of life has its own unique flavor and lessons to offer. Concerning the whole dating at 15 thing, it often seems like there's a rush to experience everything so quickly, but sometimes taking your time adds depth to those experiences later on. Instead of stressing about timelines or what others are doing, embrace where you are now and let things evolve naturally; life's beauty often lies in its unpredictability.