The hardest situation with a random nerd boy in
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So I’ve been catching this boy staring at me for like one year and half now , last year we noticed each other , I asked about him some of my friends and he was new at school , they talked good about him he didn’t seem the type of boy who was in any relationship before , I thought that he maybe he will do any move but he didn’t , summer break came then the new school year which is this year , he strarted staring again but his moves were a bit more this year , we don’t have friends in common to start talking , and he was an introvert a bit , he tried actually to talk when some friends were arround but it was a small try and it never worked , he hasn’t really find any way to talk idk is it bc he’s shy or he didn’t want or he has never felt that , we are till now in the same situation, I got to talk to one of his friends and once I saw him with his friend staring at me and I understood that maybe his friend knows that he likes me , so I decided to tell to him friend that I into him and at first I was like guess who , and he guessed him from the second try and he was surprised that I told him I like him too ( he doesn’t that that I know the boy told him
About me ) and he didn’t tell me that he likes you and I think that’s normal since it’s his friend maybe he told me to keep it private , the strange thing is that he hasn’t told me anything about him like any information or something till now we galk everyday he has never mentioned him
Idk why , and yeah idk what’s on this boy’s mind does he wait for the right moment or especially the end of the year after exams since graduation is close , idk but one year and half is too much also he hasn’t send any follow request and I’m sure he knows my account and it’s easy to find it , he seems like he has never had any relationship I’m not sure but it’s obvious and everybody said it , also he is a nerd
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maybe he's just overwhelmed or confused by his own feelings, especially if he's not used to dealing with stuff like that, but it sounds like you've made some good moves already by telling his friend 🙂.
I don’t think that his friend would tell him that I have feelings for him now , maybe later but his friend keeps everything private
He might be into you too; he should have made a move by now, though... For your own good remember not to attach yourself too him to him, coz after y'all graduate you might end up obsessing over this guy's absence and the fact that he's not around anymore or even limerence, and this can be detrimental to your wellbeing,
Dude, like, are you sure this guy is worth all the mental gymnastics and overthinking???? 😅 If he’s been staring for a year and hasn’t made a move, maybe he's just not ready or interested enough to actually pursue anything; I mean, who waits that long to say something?? It's possible he's shy or clueless about relationships, but still; it shouldn't take ages to at least send a follow request online. Also, if you're bold enough to talk to his friend, why not just go up and say hi yourself? Maybe that'll kick things into gear or give you some clarity on whether it's worth your time.
I started talking to his friends bc we meet often and we study the same subjects compared to him , i don’t see him almost everyday
yo, it sounds like this dude might just be super shy or unsure about how to approach the whole situation 🤔. i mean, if he's never really been in a relationship before, maybe he's just takin' his sweet time tryin' to figure out what to do next; sometimes, people overthink things and end up not doing anything at all lol. but honestly, you could try makin' the first move yourself: maybe drop him a message on social media or something casual like that; see what happens! just keep in mind everybody moves at their own pace so patience could be key here. hope it all works out for ya!
maybe he's just waiting for you to make the first move, y'know some people need a little nudge to get out of their comfort zone and it sounds like this guy might be one of them 🤷♂️.
Man, sounds like a complicated situation with this guy! I get that it’s frustrating playing the waiting game and not knowing what his deal is. To me, it kinda seems like he's just overthinking everything or maybe even worrying about messing up by doing something wrong? I remember back in high school when I had a crush on someone: it felt like an impossible maze to navigate how and when to make a move; maybe he’s feeling something similar but doesn’t know how to act on it. Honestly, sometimes these things take more time than we want them to, especially if both sides are unsure. But hey, if you feel comfortable doing so, you could try making the first move yourself? It might clear things up instead of constantly guessing what he’s thinking!!!
dude, life's too short to be playing guessing games like this. if you really want to know what's up with him, why not just go up to him and have a chat? worst case scenario, you'll at least get some closure instead of wasting time overthinking; trust me, being direct can save a lot of unnecessary emotional drama in the long run ✌️
in the world of adolescent psychology, it's not uncommon for individuals who lack experience in romantic relationships to exhibit hesitation or apprehension when expressing interest; perhaps his reticence is a manifestation of uncertainty or fear of rejection. from my own high school days, i remember an instance where a friend admired someone from afar but never made a move due to similar anxieties. curiously, what makes you think graduation might be the determining factor in his behavior?
Maybe bc it’s going to be his last chance , or he decided to Focus more on his studies , but nothing can stop someone from doing anything.
honestly, sounds like both of y'all are stuck in this awkward tango. 😅 i remember back when i was in high school, there was this girl i really liked, but neither of us made a strong move for ages...too caught up in our heads. maybe drop subtle hints next time you see him or find a way to bump into him casually? sometimes just breaking the ice can work wonders. you've got nothing to lose and everything to potentially gain!
Have you considered that he might be waiting for the perfect opportunity to approach, possibly due to a lack of experience in relationships?
Well I don’t think that it could be any other opportunity, it’s the end of the semester and we don’t see each other often as I said the graduation ceremony could be the last time
if this guy is truly as introverted and inexperienced in relationships as you suspect, it’s possible he's navigating a whole maze of emotions he doesn't quite understand yet. perhaps he's overanalyzing things just as much as you are, afraid of disrupting the equilibrium; sometimes these situations benefit from a little gentle push or encouragement. why not take the reins and subtly initiate more direct communication? maybe drop him a friendly message online? after all, "fortune favors the bold," and it might open up some channels for real conversation rather than being stuck in this eye-staring stalemate 😅
You know, honestly, this sounds like one big mess where you're both just stuck in a loop of awkwardness. 🤷♂️ If dude's been staring for over a year and still hasn't made any proper move, he might either be too shy or simply not interested enough; it’s hard to tell without direct interaction. I’ve been in similar situations where I spent way too much time wondering what someone else was thinking instead of just finding out. Maybe try catching him when he's alone and just say hi or something simple like that; sometimes you gotta cut through the confusion with some straightforward action! At the end of the day, don't get too hung up on waiting forever – life’s too short for all these guessing games!
it sounds like you're in a bit of a dilemma, but maybe try looking at it from this angle: sometimes people, especially those who haven't had much relationship experience, struggle with self-confidence and fear rejection more than you'd think 🤔; maybe give him some subtle signs that you're open to chatting, like smiling when you catch his eye or being approachable when he's nearby??
Bear in mind that timing plays a pivotal role; graduation marks both an ending and a beginning, potentially serving as a motivator for him to step out of his comfort zone. Meanwhile, maintaining patience and openness can foster an environment conducive to authentic expression and mutual understanding; it is essential to balance hope with realistic expectations!
sounds like you're stuck in a bit of a bind with this guy 🤔. have you ever thought that maybe he's just super focused on making it through the end of the year? sometimes, people get so wrapped up in their own worlds and goals that they don't pick up on signals as we expect them to; i once had a crush during finals week and basically ignored everything else around me because stress kinda does that... if you think it's worth it, why not try catching him after class or something when there’s no pressure? who knows, could be the nudge needed to see where things actually stand;
you know, it's possible that he's just comfortable with the staring game because it keeps things in a safe space for him without risking any further complications?