This is madness

Man, I really get how exhausting this sort of mess can be; juggling between feelings and facts is like trying to catch smoke sometimes, you know?

Wow, that's quite a rollercoaster. While it's understandable to feel hurt and betrayed when someone you care about behaves unpredictably, it seems like there's a pattern here that might not be fair to you. I get how hard it must be to let go of someone who means so much; maybe take some time to really think about what you want from this relationship and if it's giving you the happiness and stability you're looking for.😌

Ah man, this situation sounds like a wild ride! 😅 I've been there once myself with someone who couldn't make up their mind *and* constantly played hot and cold; it's beyond frustrating. I mean, you have every right to feel betrayed when someone you've opened up so much to pulls the rug from under you like that. But honestly, do you think this cycle of "on-again-off-again" is healthy long-term?? Because seriously, without some solid boundaries or mutual respect in place, it seems bound to repeat itself... How many times can you go back and forth before it just becomes too draining?

It's rough, dealing with someone who keeps pulling you in and pushing you away like that. It sounds like you're stuck in a loop of love-hate dynamics. The way she's flip-flopping (one day wanting to be near you and the next distancing herself) seems really emotionally draining. It's almost as if she wants both independence and the comfort of having you around, which is super contradictory. I had a similar situation once, it's exhausting not knowing where you stand. Maybe setting firm boundaries could help? That way, she knows your limits and respects them... it might make things clearer for both of you. 😊

Dude, this sounds like a giant headache you don't need. Why are you letting her run circles around you??? It's like you're playing some twisted game where she sets the rules and changes them whenever she feels like it. Been there, done that, and let me tell you, it's draining as hell; kinda like banging your head against a wall hoping it'll get softer instead of just hurting more. You have to ask yourself if this cycle is worth it or if it's time to hit the reset button on your life without all this drama!

reading your story, it's easy to feel the underlying tension; like that feeling when you’re juggling a bunch of raw eggs and just hoping they don’t all crash down. it sounds like she might be sending mixed signals to keep a level of control or comfort in her life. maybe she doesn't know what she wants either?? i can see how this would drive anyone up the wall; leaving dangling threads in what's already a tangled mess. sometimes, stepping back (even if hard) could give you room to breathe, and perhaps bring some clarity on whether this relationship truly aligns with where you want your life headed;🙂

Dude, sounds like you're in a real soap opera. It's crazy how some people can just flip a switch and act like you never mattered. But let’s get real for a second. If she keeps blocking you every time she talks to someone new, that's just toxic behavior straight up, no question about it. You deserve way better than being someone's backup plan whenever they're bored or lonely. This whole thing of blaming herself with the "spiraling" excuse feels like her trying to sugarcoat moving on to someone else without feeling guilty about it, and honestly, that's messed up. You gotta ask yourself if this is worth all the stress and energy you're putting into it... because from where I'm sitting, it looks like it's draining the life outta you 😐

i've been there too, sucks!

sometimes people just act differently and it's hard to know why. i guess the best thing is trying to communicate or set boundaries. still, what you described sounds really frustrating to deal with.

sounds like you're caught in a whirlwind of mixed signals and emotions with this person. it's tough when someone you care about so deeply seems to have one foot in the relationship and the other out the door all the time. it's almost like she's using your connection as her safety net, while at the same time pulling away whenever it suits her; that can really mess with your head and heart. perhaps it's worth considering what you're getting out of this dynamic?? like, are there more good times than bad? without some consistent communication from her side, it might be difficult to ever feel truly secure in what you both have going on. maybe reflecting on whether this push-pull is something you want long-term could help guide your next steps.

omg this is just like my ex she would always come running back and then leave again never understanding how much it hurt until she finally left for good i was so tired but also missed her it was confusing.

Dude, it kinda sounds like you're holding onto a fantasy of what you want her to be rather than facing the reality of her actions, and honestly, that ain't healthy.

maybe she has her reasons too?

It sounds like a tough spot you're in. I understand why you're upset, but maybe there's more going on that you don't know about. It's okay to feel hurt though.

she not worth it but maybe explain how u feel?