why is he ignoring me?
The story
ok so like i don’t even kno what happened. one day he was all sweet n talkin to me in class, laughin at my dumb jokes, sayin good morning on snap, just bein cute n stuff... and now? it’s like i don’t even exist. he don’t look at me, don’t reply, don’t even open my messages sometimes. i keep re-readin our convos like, did i say somethin wrong?? was i weird?? was i too much?? i swear i been thinkin about it nonstop and it’s makin me feel like i’m goin crazy. we used to talk every day and now it's just silence. and it hurts way more than i thought it would. i didn’t even realize how much i liked him until he started actin like i was invisible. like bruh what changed???
he was the first boy who made me feel kinda special, u kno? not like those fake boys who just wanna mess around. he actually listened to me, asked me about my day, remembered the lil things i said. he used to sit by me at lunch, even helped me with math one time (even tho he lowkey sucks at math lol). i thought it meant something, fr. like we had a thing, even if it wasn’t official or whatever. nd now it’s like he flipped a switch. i saw him talkin to some other girl the other day and he smiled at her in that same way he used to smile at me and ngl, it felt like a punch in the stomach. i told myself i wouldn’t catch feelings but i did and now here i am, listenin to sad songs like a dummy n tryna not to cry in front of ppl.
i asked my friends what i should do n they all said stuff like “forget him” or “he’s not worth it” but that don’t help. i don’t wanna just forget him. i wanna understand what i did wrong. like, was i too boring? too clingy? not pretty enough? it’s messin with my head. every time my phone lights up i hope it’s him but it never is. i be dreamin about him textin me like “hey sorry i was busy” or “i miss u” but it never happens. just more silence. and the worst part? i still like him. i still wanna talk to him. and i hate that. why do i care so much about someone who clearly don’t care about me anymore?
i keep tryna tell myself that if someone can just stop talkin to u like that, they were never really yours in the first place. but it don’t make it hurt any less. i miss how it felt when we were vibin, when i thought maybe, just maybe, this boy actually liked me for me. now i feel dumb. like i made it all up in my head or somethin. maybe he got bored. maybe he found someone better. maybe he never liked me at all. i dunno. but what i do kno is that bein ignored like this sucks. it makes u feel small. invisible. like u don’t even matter. and i’m tryna move on, i swear i am. but it’s hard when the only person u wanna hear from is the one who won’t even look at u. so yeah... why is he ignoring me? i wish i knew. i really do.
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hey, i get where you're coming from, but sometimes things aren't as personal as they seem, you know?? 😊 people have their own stuff going on that we're not always aware of. i remember a time when i thought someone was ignoring me, only to find out later they were dealing with a lot at home; it's not always easy to notice these things. communication is key, but it's a two-way street!! just because he's not responding doesn't automatically mean you did something wrong. emotions can cloud judgment and make things seem worse than they are. maybe he's going through something or just needs time to figure things out. my mentor once said, "everyone has their own set of challenges," and i find that pretty true in most situations 🌟 don't let this consume you. things change and people come back around or they don’t but either way you learn and grow❤️
Oh my gosh, I totally feel you. the same thing happened to me not too long ago: A guy I was good friends with and really liked just stopped talking to me. Here's the thing: I realised that with my boy, it was because he'd liked me and then when he stopped liking me he didn't see a reason to hang around me anymore. That might be what happened with your guy. If you can, try talking to his friends. Or try talking to him personally. Just remember: It's never your fault if someone decides they want to ghost you. Especially if you know for a fact you did nothing wrong. Just because he stopped talking to you, that doesn't mean you're any less beautiful or smart or kind or funny than you were before. You're a star!
it sounds like you're going through a tough time, and that sucks 😔 while it's easy to feel like you did something wrong, people can have reasons for changing behavior that have nothing to do with you. the dynamics of relationships can be complex—maybe there's something happening in his life that's influencing his actions. sometimes understanding how people work is like trying to crack a code; you never know what's going on behind the scenes. when someone pulls away, it's natural to wonder why, but it's also important not to jump to conclusions. just focus on taking care of yourself and keep moving forward ✨ remember that everyone has their own journey, and whatever's happening might not relate to you at all.
Honestly, I feel you on this one—I've been there myself and it's rough 😔. It's wild how someone can be all attentive and then suddenly pull a disappearing act, like they flipped a switch on your connection. It can really mess with your head, trying to understand what went wrong. Questioning if you were too much or not enough is tough, because it's easy to doubt yourself.
My homie once told me that sometimes people just lose interest without any big reason, and it hurts when you're left hanging like that. I think you're totally valid in feeling confused and hurt. People say “just move on,” but it's not that simple when you've caught feelings and invested emotions.
Sometimes it feels like you're left with all these unanswered questions and no closure 😞. I hope you find some peace in this situation—and remember, you're not alone in feeling this way.
yo, i get you're upset, but jumping to conclusions ain't the way to go; overthinking just messes with your head. people got their own lives, man, and sometimes they need space. i remember flipping out when a buddy ghosted me, only to find out he was just dealing with his stuff. "don't burn bridges" a wise dude once told me. just relax, don't take it too personal. focus on being yourself and let him come back if he wants to. just keep going, plenty of other connections out there. 🤞