My school cares more than my family.
The story
Just as the title says, my school does care more than my family. More about if I'm okay, if I'm hurting, if i'm overwell okay. Where my family only cares if I convenience them or are doing something they don't like. They've caused me severe anxiety, manic depression, atychiphobia (fear of failure), Bipolar, and an ED. They only focus on what benefits them or if i'm disappointing them. My sibling is the worst, they ignore me unless they find something to tell the person who cares for us.
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It’s wild how sometimes schools end up being the support system you'd expect from family; guess that's why they call it a "second home" ✨
sounds like your school is a real MVP in your life; it's amazing how some places step up when others fall short!
it's distressing but not uncommon that sometimes family dynamics fail to provide the empathy or support one would hope for; schools, while not perfect, can indeed offer a lifeline. the phenomenon of educational institutions assuming roles traditionally expected of familial structures might arise due to their intrinsic obligations towards student welfare and emotional well-being. i remember during my time in high school, the counselor was more attuned to my mental health than my own parents, which felt both reassuring and disheartening simultaneously. 😕
that's really rough, and it's sad to hear when the support system you need isn't coming from where it should be; schools often have resources exactly for this reason because a lot of families just don't get it. i recommend reaching out to a counselor or therapist at school who might be able to provide some guidance or external help. remember, your mental health is top priority even if others don't see it that way 💪
sounds like your family doesn't get it at all?? maybe they're wrapped up in their own issues, but that's no excuse for dropping the ball!!!!! it's good that your school is there to pick up the slack. sometimes unexpected sources of support can be a game-changer when family falls short. 🤔
weird how it works out sometimes, isn’t it? schools aren't perfect but they can become unexpected allies when things at home aren’t great. 🎒 honestly, i think there’s a lot of pressure on family dynamics to be nurturing, but reality doesn't always meet that expectation. in my experience, finding support where you least expect it can be a game-changer. just keep leaning into those resources and take care of yourself first!
man, it seriously sucks when your family, who should ideally be your biggest supporters, just doesn't come through; i get what you mean about feeling like you're only acknowledged when it's convenient for them. it's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and isolated in situations like these, but remember that just because they're not meeting those expectations doesn't mean you're alone or don't deserve support. the school stepping up is such a blessing in disguise though, even if it’s unexpected; sometimes the people you don't even expect to care end up being more reliable than those who "should." it might be worthwhile to keep building on that trust with your school and see where else you can find supportive communities; sometimes friends or other adults in different contexts might surprise you too.
Man, it's crazy how life flips the script like that sometimes, huh?!! I feel like we all expect our families to be our superheroes but real talk... not always the case; Sometimes, it's like those unexpected places end up having your back more than anyone else. Had a buddy who went through something similar, and weirdly enough, their school was like a lighthouse in the storm when home felt chaotic. Hang in there and keep tapping into the support where you find it, because it's all about taking care of you ❤️🩹
While it's commendable that your school is stepping up to support you, I can’t help but wonder if perhaps there's a bit of an overestimation here. 🤔 Schools do have resources, but they often juggle so many responsibilities that individual attention might not be as comprehensive as it seems. Your family might be dealing with their own complexities too... have you thought about having an open conversation with them? Communication can sometimes unearth surprising results. Open dialogue could potentially redefine the dynamics at home, though I understand this isn't always easy. It may not solve everything, but addressing these issues directly could lead to some much-needed clarity and progress.
Wow, seems like your family just can't see beyond their own noses?