why does my mom always act like this to me
The story
im a kid. im not even close to being an adult. im the middle child. i can be quite picky with my food, so the whole day i didn't eat because i really disliked soupy pork and thats what we had to eat dinner for last night and breakfast and lunch then dinner and the day today is almost ending, i kept asking my mom if i could eat maybe canned tuna, or just an egg, anything else. she refused, she kept telling me to learn how to eat what's on the table and i didn't eat until 9 pm when i ordered mcdonalds with my OWN money, my little brother wanted food too so i added chicken nuggets so we could share, though i didnt add fries since my money wasnt enough. the food arrived and i called him down. he cried bc i didnt order fries, and he told our mom. i js went down and ate my food since i was rlly hungry and hadnt ate the whole day, and once i got upstairs to my mom's room since thats where i left my device, she started saying " you're really selfish, aren't you?" and i said huh? i asked him if he wanted chicken nuggets, he said yes. idk why he changed his mind. she then proceeded to call me more names and really wanted to let me know i am selfish 😂 i said " the fries were expensive, i couldn't add it since i didn't have enough money?? " and i js sat there on my phone, when she started mumbling to herself stuff like how she wouldn't feed me anymore, saying she'd feed me the wrappers if i left a mess, how im completelt selfihs and only think about myself. i js left the room, and now im sobbing in my room cause she really spammed the selfish button lmaoo. she then went down to scope the wholee floor downstairs to see if i had left a mess, but i left the kitchen light on which we always do. she proceeded to yell. im so tired of this, she porbablt doesnt even love me at all and is just forced to because she has me as her daughter
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I get it, being the middle child comes with its own set of challenges.... But seriously, not eating all day because you dislike the food??! That's kinda on you, kid. Maybe your mom isn't handling things the best way, but she's got a point about eating what's available; you're gonna have to learn to adapt at some point! 😌
Family dynamics can be tough, and yeah, it sucks when parents don't seem supportive or understanding.... I completely agree! That said, maybe try having an actual conversation with your mom instead of just ordering McDonald's next time... You've gotta remember that communication is key: assuming she doesn't explode again 🙄
Why didn't you just eat the soupy pork? It's not like it would have killed you. Skipping meals isn't a healthy habit, especially when you're young and growing; survival instincts 101! 😂 Your mom's reaction to your brother's tantrum was over-the-top though, I agree. Maybe try explaining your side to her calmly without the drama next time? Do you think there's any chance she'd listen if you tried talking things out with her again, using "I feel" statements or something similar?
sounds like a tough situation, and being the middle child can be tricky. 😅 it's understandable not loving every meal option on the planet, but try to balance it out with understanding where your mom's coming from; maybe she's stressed too? i remember once i didn't want to eat my veggies, and my dad treated me like i’d committed some crime 😂. sometimes parents just react strongly when they feel challenged or stressed; hang in there! 🤗
Wow, that sounds really rough. 😕 It's tough when choices at the dinner table become a battleground. Your mom's perspective might be grounded in wanting you to appreciate what’s available, but not being able to choose your own meals can be super frustrating, especially when you're paying for it yourself. You know, I had a similar encounter once where expectations about sharing food just didn't align with reality...it's no fun! It might help to have an open conversation with her about how this makes you feel and perhaps establish some compromise at meal times so everyone feels heard and respected. Hang in there!
it seems rather contradictory to label someone selfish after they willingly share their meal with a sibling, particularly given the constraints of limited funds, and it's important to acknowledge that one cannot reasonably be expected to manifest additional resources where there are none 😊.
your situation sounds really frustrating, especially when you're trying to make things work with your own money and still get criticized 😤 it's insane how some parents expect you to eat the same thing repeatedly without considering your preferences; adapting is one thing, but not being heard another. have you thought about how to approach her calmly next time? maybe finding a compromise could help both of you feel less like adversaries 🤔
yo, it's brutal growing up sometimes, but skipping meals is just gonna mess you up in the long run 🤷♂️; i totally get not liking what's on the table but maybe there's a way to play around with that soupy pork?
alright, let’s be real here...passing up food just 'cause you don't like it ain't the best move ;-) i totally get wanting something different, but sometimes you gotta just suck it up and eat what's in front of you 🤷♂️. your mom sounds pretty harsh though, jumping straight to calling you selfish and all that over some fries. it's kinda messed up how she handled your brother's crying too, like why blame you for trying to share what little you could afford? honestly, she should chill a bit instead of blowing things out of proportion. maybe focus on finding a balance; explain your side without getting defensive next time... survival not starvation lol 🙃
Alright, look, I get that being a middle child can be all kinds of annoying, but come on!!! Skipping meals 'cause you’re picky? 🤔 You're just making life harder for yourself. I mean, sure your mom could chill a bit and not blow up over fries, but think about it: she’s probably juggling a ton already. A similar thing happened to me when my brother snitched on me for eating the last slice of pizza...I thought it was the end of the world LOL! Instead of going straight to McDonald's next time, try pitching in with meal ideas or cooking something simple together; it might help smooth things out. You'll see that sometimes a little communication and compromise go a long way!!
You know, it's kinda hard to sympathize when you skip meals just 'cause you're picky, yet expect sympathy when things blow up in your face!?!? Your mom could've handled it better for sure, but let’s be realistic here: not eating all day doesn't exactly scream maturity or responsibility; maybe you could approach this with a more open mindset toward trying new foods??? By the way, have you ever thought about talking to your little brother directly and asking what would really make him happy next time instead of jumping straight to assumptions????
Man, that's just a rough scene! 😬 I totally feel for you. It's wild how parents can sometimes miss the point when you're genuinely trying to manage on your own terms with what little you've got. Your mom might be coming from a place of wanting to teach resilience or something, but it sounds like she's missing the mark big time. Maybe next time try having a heart-to-heart outside meal times about how her words affect you and why sharing what you had was anything but selfish. Keep your chin up; someday you'll be free to choose that Big Mac whenever you want!
it's really disheartening when the burden of dietary preferences falls heavily on your shoulders, yet i can't help but ponder the broader dynamics at play within your family setting...😅. perhaps your mom's reaction stems from deeper concerns, such as ensuring everyone is fed without creating extra work or stress for herself??? while it might seem unjust to be accused of selfishness, especially when you demonstrated consideration by sharing with your brother, maybe there's room for a constructive dialogue where both viewpoints are shared and understood 🙃? approaching this conversation with empathy towards her challenges might bridge some gaps, fostering a more harmonious family environment in the long run.
Man, being a kid can be hella tough sometimes; it seems like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. I understand your frustration 'cause when you shell out your own cash for food, it's totally reasonable to expect some appreciation rather than criticism. It reminds me of this one time when I spent my money on groceries and still got called out for not buying certain items… made me feel unappreciated too! Hang in there, and maybe try talking about how her words affect you; she might not realize the impact they have.
It's tough when it seems like your efforts aren't appreciated, especially when you're doing the best with what you have, but maybe there's a chance to find common ground; consider suggesting a family meal plan where everyone gets a say so there’s something for every taste and fewer surprises.