Complicated crush thing ahahaha
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Hello, it's been a while since I opened this app. I don't know who I can talk about this to because I don't want to be judged by my friends, so I thought about talking here and ask for advice regarding this 🥲 There's this guy I like, since the start of the school year, he's the top 1 of our batch, really cute, and he's the youngest out of all of us. He's two years younger than me. I told his friend abt my small crush on him, and he told me that he's not interested in anyone and it's like he has his own world, after that talk I kind of hoped I had a small chance of him liking me back. But then recently, we had this class assignment in school where all of us should prepare a pretend wedding, and of course, in a wedding you're supposed to have a bride and a groom. I was chosen as the bride, and our class really wanted my crush to be the groom since we had past acting experiences where he was the male lead and I was the female lead. We asked him, and he replied with "What. I'll just stay at the food preparations... Give me 100k and I'll consider it" I don't know how to feel guys, I feel a bit heartbroken by that, but at the same time I don't know if I should feel this way since idk if he replied with that because I was the bride, or if he just doesn't want to be the groom I have been rlly obvious of liking him so maybe he's just uncomfortable with me. I just feel so sad and heartbroken because of his reaction like it made me rethink if I deserve to be loved ☹️☹️ His friend asked him again and we are still waiting for his reply because our classmates rlly want it to be him, but another guy stepped up and told me that he's willing to be the groom. Should I still wait for his reply or do we get the other guy instead to be our groom?? Sorry if it's kind of lengthy, I rlly need an advice guys 🙏 tysm!
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I'm also picked to play female lead every time and I refuse sometimes if it's about a couple . I just dont like playing that part. I don't hate the person I'm playing with.and he might like you . , but you should let the other dude act with you. Maybe he just doesn't like acting out romance. And you definitely deserve to be loved
I totally feel you, it's hard when your emotions are on the line; In project management, risk assessment is crucial, so maybe think of it as evaluating your options. If he’s not interested, no worries, move on to the next best plan! You deserve to be surrounded by kindness and understanding. Sometimes teammates step up when unexpected, like the other guy. Weigh your decision carefully and prioritize your happiness! Best of luck!
hey there, totally get where you're coming from. it's tough when you're kinda putting yourself out there and the other person's all like, "nah, I'd rather be prepping food." but ya know, sometimes people just ain't on the same page, and that's okay; it's like in that saying, "different strokes for different folks." maybe that other dude stepping up is like a blessing in disguise, ya never know! really think about what makes you happy and gives you peace. give it some thought cuz you gotta look out for yourself, right? take care and keep your chin up!
frankly, I completely understand your situation. dealing with someone who acts like they are in "their own world" can be frustrating and disheartening. in my experience, waiting for someone who doesn't show interest is often a fruitless endeavor. when someone demands "100k" just to participate, it indicates a lack of genuine interest or commitment in collaboration. it's reminiscent of situations in competitive markets where some stakeholders just aren't worth the investment. the notion of "deserving to be loved" should not be contingent on one person's indifferent response. my advice: do not waste valuable emotional resources on someone who doesn't reciprocate. pursue the interests of those who willingly bring positivity and value into the project at hand.
yo, seriously, I get the whole crush thing!! but honestly, if a dude says he'd rather be at "food preparations" for "100k," that ain't a vibe... like, come on, he clearly don't care about the whole pretend wedding shindig. I've been in similar situations, and it's just not worth your energy or stress. you wanna have someone who actually wants to be there, you know? reminds me of "all that glitters ain't gold." maybe think about the other guy, since he's actually up for it. don't waste time waiting on someone who can’t see what they got right in front of 'em. just my two cents!!!!! 🤷♂️