How to make your parents proud?

I can relate somewhat. Academic achievements should be celebrated too, however maybe your parents have different values based on what they've experienced themselves!

man, i totally get where you're coming from. it's like being stuck in some weird competition you never signed up for. ever feel like you have to juggle a million things just to catch their attention? honestly, sometimes it feels like no matter what you do, it's not good enough cause you're not the "sporty one." this happened to me too when my cousin was all into soccer while i was more of a bookworm... felt like my accomplishments simply vanished into thin air whenever he scored a goal. maybe finding someone else who appreciates your efforts can help balance things out?

i once won science fair n thot ma folks would b over the moon bt nope my sis had basketball finals n thats wht mattered realy they were so into it smh

you're definitely not alone in feeling like that. my sister was a sports star too and i'd get the side-eye for spending time on books. it sucks when you put effort into something important to you, and it seems to go unnoticed. maybe there's a way to bring up the topic with them without sounding confrontational? could open up some dialogue. also, have you ever thought about telling them directly what recognition means to you? sometimes parents just don't realize the little things...

Man, I totally get where you're coming from. It sucks to feel like your hard work isn't being recognized just because it doesn't come with a cheer squad, you know? My family used to be all about my sister's singing competitions while I'd bring home straight As and barely get a nod. I think sometimes parents get caught up in what they think is impressive or exciting and forget that academic achievements are just as important.

It can really mess with your head when the recognition feels so unbalanced. In the long run, though, what you learn and how you apply it will probably have more lasting impact than short-lived glory moments on the field. It's tough now, but trust me when I say your efforts will pay off in ways you might not see yet! Keep at it and find people who appreciate your academic wins... they're out there!

oh man, that sounds frustrating 😒. why is it so hard for some people to see past the scoreboard and notice the effort you put in? schools might as well hand out trophies just for kicking a ball while ignoring actual brain power. are your parents more into sports themselves or something; could be why they lean towards your brother's achievements? you're totally right though, academic success deserves acknowledgment too, not like it's easy acing those exams. vent on, maybe they'll get the hint eventually...

maybe it's not about making parents proud but finding something that fulfills you instead.

man, that's tough :(

It's tough navigating parental expectations, honestly. Sometimes I wonder if they're just conditioned by societal norms or maybe past experiences with their own families. Everyone wants recognition for what they excel in yet maybe our parents are trapped by traditional thinking? Just speculating here.

This hits home so hard. It's tough when you feel like what you bring to the table isn't recognized in the same way, especially when it comes to stuff as significant as education. In some families, sports might just naturally get a lot more attention because they're easier to see and understand on a day-to-day basis; maybe your folks grew up valuing athleticism or were involved in sports themselves, which can sometimes skew their focus without them even realizing it. That doesn’t mean your efforts in academics aren't important though, and it's crucial for your own peace of mind to remember that the skills you're building can open doors down the road that they might not fully grasp right now. I get how frustrating it is when immediate recognition isn’t there; maybe have a calm chat about how much these things matter to you too?

Back in high school, I remember busting my ass for grades while my sister got all the attention for her dance competitions. It drove me nuts. 🤦‍♂️ You're right, though: it often feels like you're being overshadowed by what seems to grab their interest more; it's a damn shame when hard work doesn't get the credit it deserves. Ever tried accidentally interrupting during their favorite show's match just to see if they might notice? Balance is key, but sometimes spotlight tends to hover elsewhere no matter what; keep pushing and eventually it'll pay off in your own way.

I gotta say, it’s infuriating how sports seem to get all the glory while academic effort gets brushed under the rug like it's nothing special.

You know, it’s kinda ridiculous how some families just hyper-focus on sports like it's the only thing that matters. It's not fair, and you're right to feel frustrated when your hard work gets brushed aside as if it doesn't count for anything. People often underestimate the amount of dedication it takes to excel in studies, especially with all the distractions around us. It’s like being good at academics is invisible unless there's a medal or trophy involved. Maybe it's just about getting through this phase and eventually proving that success doesn't always come with cheering crowds. Keep doing what you’re good at; it'll pay off in ways that matter more than just getting a pat on the back from someone who's too busy watching TV.

Maybe seek counseling?