I hate middle school already.
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There were these girls I was rude to in fifth grade named Sadie and Molly (I will bring Molly up more later). Sadie is the most annoying hypocrite ever. We would get into fights all the time over the smallest things, and she would always say, 'Maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore.' I had to talk her out of it every single day. After around three months, I got really annoyed and started being rude to her and other people. I also started ignoring Molly.At the beginning of sixth grade, I told Molly and Sadie I was truly sorry for being a jerk and wanted to start over. Molly said she forgave me, and we started hanging out again, though I don't really believe she actually forgave me. Because Sadie is such a hypocrite, she told everyone, including Molly, to stay far away from me.Molly and I would secretly talk to each other when Sadie wasn't looking. When Molly got caught, Sadie would guilt-trip her and get furious. It took half the year for the teachers to realize what was going on because Molly and I were afraid Sadie would spread rumors, or that the teachers would think we were overreacting. Soon, the Sadie drama died down, but Molly randomly started reminding me about how much of a jerk I was to her in fifth grade. She makes fun of me by calling me ugly, mocking my interests as 'cringe,' and insulting the way I talk. I have told her to stop multiple times, but she still won't. She is giving me lower self-esteem than Sadie ever did. I feel like I have to change my interests, personality, and looks just so she won't make fun of me.
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sounds like a mess...! ??? but are you really sure about all that? maybe you're just seeing things in a negative way right now; don't you think everyone's got their flaws??!! if sadie's such a hypocrite, why let her opinion bother you so much? and molly's actions seem to be hurting you more than helping'; maybe it's time to rethink who you're calling friends???!!!
Thank you for helping me realize. I've been running out of people to hang out with. I really hate being alone so I just hang out with Molly until I find someone nicer.
yo, i honestly don't get why you're sticking around with these people who treat you like crap. it sounds like both sadie and molly are toxic, and life's too short to deal with folks who make you feel bad about yourself!!! remember that saying: "you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with"? ever thought about hanging with a different crowd and seeing if things change?? i've ditched negative friends before, and trust me, it's like cutting loose weights holding you back. i mean seriously, why let someone mess with your self-esteem when there’s so many decent peeps out there who won't?
It's tough when friends hold past mistakes over your head, especially if you've already apologized; do you think Molly's behavior might be rooted in something else, like her own insecurities or issues?
I'm not sure tbh.
sounds like a real nightmare dealing with people who just don't know when to quit being toxic. ??? i'm honestly baffled by how molly's giving you grief after you've tried to make things right; it's like she took sadie's spot in causing drama, which is just messed up. ??? i get that it probably feels like you're walking on eggshells around them, but maybe it's time to seriously consider cutting ties with anyone not adding value to your life, no matter how tough that might feel. seems like both sadie and molly are holding onto past grudges or insecurities and using you as a scapegoat, which is super unfair. ?? focus on surrounding yourself with people who genuinely care about you instead of those who bring you down!
man, that whole scenario with sadie and molly sounds like a playground episode of "Mean Girls" 😑 dealing with hypocrites and people who switch up on you ain’t easy... we've all been there. it's wild how some folks just love stirring drama instead of letting things chill. i get why you're feeling low, but screw trying to change yourself for molly or anyone else, honestly. my advice? use this time to focus more on new friendships. you'll find cooler peeps who won't make life feel like a soap opera rerun!
Man, that sounds like a rollercoaster of drama!!! Middle school is such a tough time for friendships; it's like everyone's trying to figure out who they are, which can make things so complicated. I totally get why you're feeling torn up about Molly's behavior: it’s hard when someone you think forgives you starts dragging you down instead!!! Maybe it’s worth having one last heart-to-heart with her about how it’s affecting you? Friendships should lift us up, not knock us down... I've been there before and making new friends surprisingly turned out for the best...worth considering!
Wow, that sounds incredibly tough! It’s crazy how the drama from fifth grade can still haunt you. Maybe it’s time to focus on people who genuinely make you feel good about yourself and let go of those who bring negativity into your life??? Sometimes walking away can be the healthiest choice!!!
it's really tough when friendships get so complicated, especially when you're trying to make amends and move forward. it sounds like you've done your best to apologize and reconnect, yet not everyone's been receptive. sometimes people hold onto the past longer than they should, but remember you deserve respect in any relationship. hang in there; you'll find friends who appreciate you just as you are ❤️
yo, i totally feel you; it's like you're stuck in a soap opera where no one's winning. maybe it’s time to focus on just being your awesome self and see who gravitates towards you naturally? 🤔 sometimes distancing yourself means getting room to breathe and figure out what genuinely matters to you, 'cause let's face it, these girls ain't helping you grow or feel good about who you are! keep your chin up; dust off those people who can’t appreciate the real you 💪
It's a tough situation you're in, for sure. But sometimes, holding onto friendships that aren't serving you can be more draining than being alone for a bit. It sounds like Molly's behavior is affecting your self-esteem, and that's not something you should have to endure. Maybe consider focusing on activities or hobbies where you might meet people who share your interests. New friends can bring fresh perspectives and positivity into your life!
man, this whole situation reeks of middle school drama that never seems to end!!! but seriously, aren't you tired of bending over backwards for people who don't appreciate it??? maybe molly's stuck in the past because she can't move on from what happened in fifth grade; it's a pathetic excuse! consider if these friendships are worth salvaging when they’re just weighing you down. instead of waiting around for new friends to magically appear, actively seek out better people who won’t treat you like trash. come on, there’s gotta be someone out there who's not wrapped up in petty games; make the effort and you'll find them;..
it's wild how those old tensions with sadie and molly are still playing out.
It sounds like an exhausting situation to be in, and it's tough when apologies don't seem to pave the way for better relationships. It's definitely challenging when past mistakes become ammunition for others. Maybe there's a deeper dynamic at play with Molly, where she’s dealing with her own insecurities by projecting them onto you. It might help to reflect on what you truly want from friendships right now, focusing more on emotional support and less on past obligations. Finding people who respect your journey and growth can bring a refreshing sense of peace, even if it takes some time to find that new circle.