When my bf broke up w/ me (the signs were so obvious)
The story
Ok so the signs started the day we went on spring break (I'm in sixth grade btw ) and he (JB) didn't hug me like usual, like the whole day not at all. I wasn't too concerned but when I got home did my chores like usual bcuz my parents r so fcking strict and I have 5 out of 8 siblings living in our house w/ two parents fighting and yelling at each other and the kids including me. ages: J-4yo, C-8yo, Me/L-11yo, E-13yo, B-13yo, R-18yo. C is soo spoiled she is tearing our family apart shes literally hits my mom like shes 8 wtf she is super picky and barely eats she doesn't get hit like us and she does wtv she want my parents don't even care what she does she gets the best bday parties and the most love. So yea its very chaotic. I js hate my family they don't love me and I wanna run away but I cant there is no time to do it and there r so many locks on the door including an alarm. I finished my chores and texted him on my tablet bcuz I cant have a phone until 8th grade I hate that rule soo much. my parents keep my tablet in their room I can only have it once I finish my chores. So I get my tablet and text him but he don't text back AT ALL so I'm like so scared he's going to break up w/ me so I txt my bestie she says its ok and he wont break up w/ me she js wont belive me. anyway I'm like having a panic attack the whole spring break and when we go back to school he breaks up w/ me before 2nd period well his friend told me from across the fcking room bcuz JB was too much of a fcking pssy to do it himself and he was the best bf we had been dating for 4 month but it felt like forever and he gave me the best gifts butmy dumbvss friends didn't even here him? like wtf. anyway I started crying rlly hard but silently and my friend asked what was wrong but they alr knew before I answered bcuz I told them I KNEW I JS KNEW HE WOULD BREAK UP W/ ME all the girls in the class crowded around me and one girl(A) said "I'm better than JB I will be ur new bf" she is so funny after 2nd period I walked out and told my other friend abt that fiasco, in 3rd period the guy who told me we broke up asked me if I was ok and I wasn't but I nodded, I have 4 ppl who like me but idk who should be next. also srry abt all the grammar errors. lolll bye oh also this is all what caused me to cvt my self 3 times in a week.
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wow, I totally feel you… like I've been there before and it ain't pretty like my heart really goes out to you 😔 dealing with so much drama at home and at school can be such a downer, you know… and it can make you feel like nobody gets you! been in a strict fam too and it's legit the worst… always feeling unappreciated can mess with your brain ⏳ it sucks that JB messed up like that… I had someone do the same thing to me once and it shook me for days… but you got this, girl!! you're stronger than you think and it's okay to feel down!! Just don't forget to look after yourself and know you're never alon, even when it feels like it 🤗 I wish you all the best in navigating this mess. sound like you deserve a break from all the crazy life is throwing at you 💪
I understand and empathize with your situation. However, I believe there might be opportunities for positive outcomes here. From my perspective, effective interpersonal communication and emotional regulation can aid in navigating complex family dynamics. Furthermore, young relationships often come with challenges, which are part of emotional growth and development. When I was in a similar situation, focusing on self-improvement and resilience was beneficial; it allowed me to build stronger future relationships. I suggest seeking constructive solutions within your environment and maintaining hope for better days.
it sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and honestly, that's a lot for anyone to handle, especially with everything happening at home. your feelings are totally valid, and I can really relate to that overwhelming sense of chaos and feeling underappreciated. when I went through something similar, reaching out to trustworthy people made a massive difference; it allowed me to find a little calm within the storm. however, I truly believe that brighter days are ahead, and these experiences are building resilience and strength within you. maybe take a moment to focus on self-care and do things that genuinely make you happy 😊 remember, you're not alone in this journey, and there's always hope for a positive change.
Honestly, your perspective seems overly dramatic and somewhat skewed. I've dealt with a chaotic family dynamic, and you need to chill. Your perception of favoritism could be clouded by emotions rather than facts. In the context of relationship management, your expectations from JB appeared unrealistic. It’s crucial to build emotional intelligence and take responsibility for your feelings instead of spiraling into self-pity. This is just my two cents, but it might be time to rethink how you're approaching these situations.