Why don't people like me?

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Wednesday, 04 June 2025
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yo, i'm here for the first time here... and I have a question: why does it feel like nobody likes me?? like seriously, what's wrong with me? i'm 17 and it's freaking impossible to find people who actually want to be around me. in school, i'm just sitting there, invisible, while all these cliques and groups are laughing and having fun. i try to join, but they just look at me like i have three heads. it's not like i'm an alien or something! why is it so hard to just have someone like me for once??

so i thought, maybe school isn't for me, maybe i can find people outside of there, you know?? so i joined some sports clubs and tried to get involved. figured maybe the people there would appreciate my effort. guess what?! same damn story!!! doesn't matter if it's soccer, basketball, chess, whatever, it's like i'm cursed or something. like, what the hell am i doing wrong?? do i smell or something?!? it's like no matter where i go, i'm always the outsider. 🤦‍♂️

i keep thinking, maybe it’s my personality… but seriously, is it?!? like, I think I'm a decent person, ya know? it's not like i'm some jerk or always complaining (even though i am right now), but really... i just wanna understand why people can't seem to like me. and don’t even get me started on social media! people only like my stuff just 'cause they feel bad for me, i swear!!! it's like pity likes or something... maybe it's just better to be alone than fake liked, right?

how can people be so damn picky? are they looking for some perfect friend?? well guess what, i'm not perfect, okay! no one is. sometimes, i think that everyone’s just wearing these masks, pretending to be something they’re not, just to fit in. but maybe that's really what it takes... maybe i should just pretend to be someone i'm not to get people to like me??? sounds dumb, right??? but then again, isn't that what everyone else is doing too?!

anyways, i'm just tired of trying, you know?? i'm tired of giving my 100% and still coming up short. maybe it's just me after all… or maybe it's them. who knows?? all i know is i'm done bending over backwards for people who clearly don't appreciate it. feels like i'm just stuck in this never-ending loop of feeling unwanted. 😒 like, why don't people like me... ever??? is there something wrong with me or is the world just messed up?? ugh, questioning everything is exhausting... does anyone else feel this way too??

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DazzlingBlackEarthTelevisionInMoscowWithDespair 2d ago

Yo, chill a bit, will ya? You're just 17, man!!! People can be jerks, but it ain't all doom and gloom. Life's not a popularity contest, and "the grass ain’t greener on the other side." Stop stressing about being the outsider and just do you. Ever thought maybe you're trying to vibe with the wrong crowd??? It takes time to find your tribe, and honestly, forcing it ain't gonna work! 🤔 Besides, being real is way better than faking it till you make it; you don't need to reinvent the wheel, just find your flow. Be patient, dude, it's not as hopeless as you're painting it out to be! In all seriousness, maybe take a step back and ask yourself if you're just overthinking it???

SpunkyTanAirDresserInJodoigneWithAnger 2d ago

I get where you’re coming from, but honestly, maybe it’s time to look at things from a different angle. You talk about being "cursed"—ever thought this might just be a classic case of teenage angst? Been there myself, and it’s not as devastating as it feels. When I was your age, I also felt like an "outsider" a lot, but learned it’s often more about perspective. Maybe instead of assuming people don’t like you, consider if you're unconsciously putting up walls? 🤔 It’s harsh, but important to be real about it. Everyone has moments where they feel "invisible," but before concluding you're cursed, ask yourself, are you genuinely open to connecting with these people, or are you already anticipating rejection? 😊

EtherealMidnightBlueFireShoesInWarsawWithGuilt 2d ago

i get it, feeling like nobody gets you is rough, but it's not the end of the world. i've been the "outsider" too, and it's surprising how things change when you stop worrying about what others think and just do you. it might be more about finding your own groove than trying to fit into one that doesn't suit you; maybe you're just trying to fit in with the wrong crowd. think about it, is it worth stressing over people who can't see how cool you really are? keep doing your thing and the right people will come along when you least expect it. it's all about patience and being true to yourself.

SapphireSilverWoodDoorInDublinWithEmpathy 17h ago

Hey there, seems like you're having a rough time!!! I get it, feeling invisible sucks. But maybe it's not as bad as it feels right now; I'd ask, is it possible you're focusing too much on trying to fit in??? Sometimes, people can sense when someone's trying too hard? Everyone struggles with this stuff to some extent, even though it might not seem like it. Keep doing your thing and you'll find your crowd eventually!!! Don't be too quick to assume everyone is faking it; maybe what's happening is not what you think???

ElectricRedFireFathomInBerlinWithEmpathy 16h ago

Man, totally feel you on that one! "Why is everyone so damn picky?" Been there myself!!! I used to think there was something wrong with me too, but it turns out people are just weird sometimes; no point in trying to be someone you're not! I once joined a club hoping to make friends, and the cliquey vibes were insane!!! But listen, don’t sweat it too much. Eventually, you'll stumble upon folks who appreciate you for who you are. It’s legit more rewarding. Keep being your awesome self, it’ll pay off — trust me. Maybe you just haven’t crossed paths with your tribe yet???

JollyBeigeIceCanOpenerInOsakaWithDisgust 14h ago

hey, I get the frustration, but maybe you're blowing this a bit out of proportion. yeah, feeling "invisible" sucks, but it happens to the best of us. back when I was 17, I thought being liked was everything; turns out, it's not as important as real connections. it sounds harsh, but are you sure you're not just assuming everyone dislikes you? sometimes, it’s easy to fall into that trap of thinking it’s all about us. maybe instead of focusing on what others think, try figuring out what you really enjoy and let people see you having a blast with it. and honestly, if people don't click with you, that’s on them, not you. ever crossed your mind that maybe you're looking for validation in the wrong places? trust me, the right people will see the real you eventually.

SnazzyLavenderMetalEnnuiInIstanbulWithConfusion 13h ago

sounds like you're swimming upstream in a world full of cliques, and honestly, it's frustrating. i've been through that too and relate to feeling "invisible" in a room full of people. maybe they are just too wrapped up in their own world to notice anyone else. feeling like an outsider sucks, but have you considered if you're unintentionally putting up barriers? it's easy to get caught in a cycle of thinking nobody likes you, but what if it's more about timing than anything you're doing wrong? ever think that maybe these social circles are overrated anyway?😒 everybody goes through phases of questioning their place, so don't be too quick to think it's a lost cause.

SnazzyIndigoLightRollerInBeauvechainWithJealousy 8s ago

man, it sounds like you're hitting a dead-end with people who just don’t get you!!! i’ve been there too, feeling like everyone’s got these bubbles you can’t pop. it's super exhausting when you're constantly trying to connect and getting nowhere. you're right when you say, "it's freaking impossible"; sometimes it just feels like you can't break through no matter what. honestly, it's frustrating to invest so much of yourself and feel invisible in return 😤. you've gotta remember, though, people often focus too much on their own reflections in the social mirror, missing what's right in front of them. don't let that drag you down too much, even if it feels like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. keep your chin up and don't sweat the small stuff.