As a 16-year-old keen on expanding my collection of gaming merchandise, I sought recommendations and was directed to an acquaintance, whom we'll refer to as M. After some discussion, we decided I'd pay in bi-weekly installments, or even sooner if possible. Over a few days, our conversations deepened to personal life and health issues. M shared similar past experiences, which built some trust.

I proceeded with the first payment via a gift card, which M claimed was unusable as it had been redeemed. Confused, I checked with customer support who confirmed its redemption. Believing M’s claim and supporting screenshots, I reluctantly sent an additional $25 provided by my partner. Following this, M ceased communication until a brief and unsettling response the following evening. Frustrated, I confronted them harshly and blocked them. My partner and another friend tried to mediate, only to discover M, who was actually 12, admitted to wrongly keeping the money but had already spent it. M's apology, coerced by my friend, felt hollow since I was left without recourse.

Consulting my partner's aunt, a trip to small claims court seemed viable. I informed M of my intent to pursue legal action and to involve the police. My decision has since isolated me from the friend who initially recommended M, leaving me to question if my response was too severe for a minor over a partially self-inflicted loss.

Imagine the drama if this was all unfolding on a reality show! The cameras capturing every furious message exchange, the tense meetings with friends and family deliberating the next step, and that climactic moment of deciding to take legal action—all peppered with suspenseful music and close-ups. Viewers would likely be on the edge of their seats, debating my choices and the moral dilemma of pursuing justice against a minor.

I might be asking myself: Am I overreacting to a childish mistake?

Should I take legal action against M?