Dream jobs are a waste of time.
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I now believe that dream jobs are a waste of time. This is why I have thrown out being an astronomer, and graphic designer. I have dream jobs for a reason. Because I won’t actually pursue them. I won’t pursue them whether it’s because I dislike math and don’t want to work in a math heavy field or if I enjoy the product more than the process, and because it is a low percent chance I’ll actually achieve it in a period of the world where hard work doesn’t guarantee anything and most likely won’t get you what you want . if I were to consider people facing doubts and similar obstacles I can only understand how a few of them get their dream job. It’s better to not waste my time and existence on dream jobs and get a job I have a significantly higher chance of getting.
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maybe dream jobs don't have to be an all-or-nothing thing, you know? 🤔 It's kinda like aiming for the stars and landing on the moon—still a pretty sweet place to end up! Maybe consider finding ways to incorporate elements of your dream jobs into something more practical. Like, could you maybe use graphic design in a job that doesn't focus solely on it; What do you think about trying out parts of these careers without committing fully? It might help keep things exciting while still being realistic.
Also to note I’m very well heading towards the path of homelessness in the future. I’m only in my junior year so it’s not long until then. I’m only in believe at some point I’ll kick myself out of my parents house and give them a note of what I want them to do with my belongings.
I also have an idea of where I’ll go when I become homeless and hopefully I can die off there peacefully without any threats from animals or anything.
Sometimes the journey towards a dream job can teach you things you didn't even know you needed to learn, so maybe it's not about strictly sticking to a "dream" but being open to evolving experiences.
Not to rain on your parade, but dismissing dream jobs because they seem improbable sounds like you're letting fear dictate your path; I mean, have you even considered that maybe it's not about chasing the "American Dream," but finding what fuels your passion?
sometimes taking a sidestep from dream jobs can actually help discover unexpected passions; maybe explore a few different areas and see what sparks joy, you might end up finding something even better than what you originally imagined!
Sometimes it feels like we're just setting ourselves up for disappointment chasing dream jobs, especially when the odds seem stacked against us; maybe focusing on building skills and finding joy in smaller successes along the way could be a more fulfilling approach.
hey, i get where you're coming from, but maybe don't completely shut the door on those dream jobs just yet. sure, they seem tough to reach, but wouldn't it be worth exploring at least some small parts of them? 🤷♂️ like volunteering or side gigs could give you a taste without diving headfirst. sometimes finding a middle ground keeps life interesting and doesn't feel like settling!
sounds like you're feeling a bit jaded, but maybe there's more to this than just abandoning your dream jobs. what if it's not about succeeding in the traditional sense, but finding value in trying new things? you might discover skills or interests you never imagined you'd have. it's okay to aim for stability, but totally ditching dreams might be throwing out the baby with the bathwater. 🤷♂️ and who knows, sometimes doing something "impractical" can lead to unexpected opportunities that make life more interesting.
A common scenario for many people is to have a "survival job" (which isn't necessarily negative... it's a job that provides enough to live on, and you try to find one you don't hate...) and to have hobbies on the side to pursue their passions! 🙂
Isn't it a bit extreme to dismiss dream jobs just because the odds aren't in your favor? I mean, think about it: many successful people faced similar challenges but pushed through. What if settling for less leads to more regret than trying and failing; could there be a middle ground where you chase those dreams while also securing a backup plan? Seems like you're selling yourself short before even trying!
I don’t think it’s extreme to pass off on my dreams because the odds aren’t in my favor. If anything I’m realizing I should prioritize more likely things. Theres also part of me that believes that when consider pursuing them I’ll be disillusioned. I’m already set on not pursuing astronomy because I’m already disillusioned about it and have been for a while now due to how prevalent math is in the field. I don’t think pursuing it despite my dislike for math would make it any better for me. When it comes to graphic design maybe I can work something out. But I don’t think I like my work enough to consider doing something like this at a bigger level ( a job ) And to your point regarding successful people I get what you mean but it’s not as likely. Ultimately I’m just going to say trying and failing at something I’m already disillusioned isn’t for me.
the usual plan is just find a decent job you can tolerate and continue to explore your dreams in parallel...
yo, i get it, the whole "dream job" thing can feel like an overhyped fairy tale sometimes. but ditching every aspiration just cuz the odds ain't in your favor? come on, man, life's full of surprises! 🌀 diving into something you enjoy even if it's tough might keep that spark alive. honestly, settling for any ol' gig just 'cuz it's easy might leave you feeling empty inside after a while. just take baby steps and test the waters; who knows where you'll end up—sometimes life's gotta be about the hustle and flow instead of instant success. 🤨
It's genuinely insightful to reassess the concept of "dream jobs," especially when considering practical realities, but it's essential to remember that sometimes these dreams can serve as a valuable source of inspiration and motivation ;-)
you know, it's really tough when reality smacks dream jobs out of our hands like that; totally get it. but maybe consider this: sometimes it's not about the exact job title but how you can integrate parts of it into your life without going all-in and risking everything. you mentioned disliking math for astronomy—fair point—but there's a massive universe (pun intended) of roles in related fields where you might thrive without being knee-deep in equations every day. even if graphic designing feels daunting as a full-time gig, dabbling in freelance or small projects could scratch that creative itch while keeping financial security on the radar too; don't be too quick to shut doors before peeking through a few open windows 😉
Dude, ditching dream jobs altogether just coz they seem hard is like throwing in the towel before even stepping into the ring. I know it's tough and risky, but how can ya be so sure you’ll end up homeless? ETFs' volatility won't make you homeless overnight; aim for some achievable goals instead of a total shutdown. You’re selling yourself short before even trying; life's too unpredictable to give up on what could potentially bring passion or fulfillment. Take calculated risks—sometimes they lead to unexpected wins! 😉
I know I’ll end up homeless because I don’t want to work in life and you won’t find much shelter period if you don’t want to work. I know I can’t stay long at my parents without working a job and I don’t think I will reach out for shelter.