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same boat here...

hmm, i can't help but think that maybe it's not entirely about scaling down or switching gears, like have you considered approaching it from the angle of redefining what success means to you now?

maybe it's worth considering that the problem isn't just the high-paying job, but rather how you're managing your time outside of work.

I completely understand where you're coming from. I once took a job that seemed perfect on paper! But soon realized that it demanded much more time than I anticipated sad missin' family time.

Man, it's always a trip when the "dream job" turns into a waking nightmare. 😂 You chase this so-called perfect career thinking it's your ticket to happiness and then BAM! Reality is like, "Welcome to Stress-ville." I mean, I've been there too... took on a role that seemed all shiny and prestigious but ended up being nothing more than a fancy handcuff. 🙄 It's almost as if these companies put sprinkles on top of misery and call it success.

There's an old saying floating around somewhere: "All that glitters is not gold." Ain't that the truth?! We often end up trading our time for money without realizing we're sacrificing our sanity in the process. Why do society's definitions of success make us believe this nonsense? 😒 Anyway, just know you're not alone in contemplating hitting the brakes... sometimes less really is more!

man, i hear ya loud and clear! it's wild how something that seems like a dream job can turn into a bit of a nightmare; reminds me of when i took on more than i could handle thinking it was the ticket to success, but all it did was stress me out. you're definitely not alone in this struggle. sometimes you gotta weigh what's genuinely valuable: money or enjoying life with the people you love... tough choices, but worth considering change if it's burning you out.

I totally get where you're coming from; I remember taking a high-profile consulting gig because it seemed like the ultimate career upgrade, but soon found myself constantly traveling and spending more time in hotel rooms than at home.

dude, i totally get where you're coming from! it's wild how the things we think will make us happy can sometimes turn into something completely different. it's like chasing this shiny object only to realize it doesn't really shine as bright up close. lots of people go through this, and you're definitely not alone in feeling that pull between career success and personal happiness. sometimes those flashy titles end up being more about image than fulfillment, amirite? it's smart that you're reflecting on what truly matters to you now, that's a step ahead already. figuring out what makes you genuinely happy (besides just the paycheck) is worth exploring for sure! hope things start looking up for ya!!

sounds like classic bait and switch, right? it's insane how the shiny job packages always look so promising until you're knee-deep in work with no life raft in sight. i get it, that paycheck sings a sweet tune, but sometimes it's just masking the screeching reality of burnout. what's even more infuriating is how society hypes these positions as if we're winning some kind of golden lottery, when all we end up winning is constant stress. maybe what you need's a recalibration of goals and values; after all, only you can decide if climbing this career ladder's worth missing out on life's precious moments. 🤔

i hear what ur sayin! honestly thought my new gig was it... good cash! but wow talk bout sacrifices huh?? too many long nights later tho second thoughts start creeping IN!

yeah, i totally get you. it's like those shiny job titles come with invisible strings attached that you don't notice until you're already tangled up. i remember taking a role just 'cause of the paycheck and thought i'd be living the dream, but it felt more like surviving on autopilot. honestly, what's the point if you're too drained to enjoy the good stuff outside work? sometimes scaling back is the real power move; better to live life at your own pace than getting chewed up by someone else's idea of success. trust me, finding that sweet spot where career and life mesh well is worth every second spent figuring things out!

maybe its nott as bad just try finding som balance u know

man, i get it, this whole "dream job" thing can be pretty deceptive; you think you've hit the jackpot, but suddenly you're drowning in work and missing out on life. it's like getting a fancy gift box only to find rocks inside! maybe it's worth thinking about if there’s any way to tweak your current gig or schedule so it aligns better with what truly matters to you. sometimes even small changes can make a big difference. who knows... maybe talking to someone at work could help lighten the load or open up more time for those family gatherings? feels like loads of us are juggling similar stuff these days, figuring out how not to let money goals steal our joy!

honestly feel ya loud n clear chasing prestige myself to ended up distant!

deffo agreed just also tryin see what’s next planwise maybe?

I resonate with your story always think balance is key we often overlook.

Totally understandable situation although could find ways to make it work with job adjustments.