No one likes you

yeah man moving is tough, people don't always warm up right away but maybe they're just stressed too;

I hear you, the disconnect feeling can be brutal 😕. Adjusting to a new place is tough, and it sounds like you're really putting yourself out there with trying small talk at work; It's frustrating when it's not reciprocated with more than a nod or blank stare. Maybe explore other ways to meet people outside of work, like local events or hobbies? Who knows, someone might surprise you there before they do in the office. Even if it feels bleak now, hang in there; someday this transition might feel worth it...

it's rough, man. new cities can be a cold place and people wrapped up in their own worlds don't even realize it. i was in the same boat once, just felt like you’re talking to walls, right? nothing more soul-crushing than feeling invisible when all you want is a bit of connection or acknowledgment... hiring managers act like they care about team "culture" but then you realize no one gives a damn unless it's all fake smiles during onboarding. maybe hit up some local meetups or clubs outside work though... gotta forge your own path here!

look u gota understand its not always abt ppl ignoring u sometimes it jus takes time 4 ppl 2 open op especially in busy cities keep tryng maybe join something outside of work any hobby groups can help break d ice

i mean, i totally feel where you're coming from but maybe the problem isn't only the city's vibe.

Transitions can be brutal, and not to sugarcoat your situation, but sometimes it takes longer than expected for things to change; loneliness indeed stings more intensely when the invisibility cloak drapes over you without consent😒 Maybe it's that these folks in the city are more about efficiency, getting stuff done over creating bonds at first...it's like a silent agreement everyone abides by.

Dude, it's really rough feeling like a ghost in your own office; moving to a new place is hard enough, but when it feels like you're not even seen?

Man, it's wild how people can act like you're just invisible, right?? Maybe they think if they ignore you long enough, you'll magically become someone else or whatever... 😒 Ever thought about maybe just straight-up calling out their cold vibes? Like, in a joking way? Sometimes shaking things up can snap folks outta their bubble. Or heck, even join some random meetup group outside work to find relatable peeps... never hurts to try. Hope something clicks soon!

Dude, cities can suck the life outta you like that; it's like everyone's got their blinkers on, racing through their own personal mazes. 🤷‍♀️ Feels almost dystopian when basic human connection becomes this rare commodity. I'm not saying to become the office jester or anything, but maybe try focusing on one person who seems kinda chill and see what happens? Treat it like an experiment; you've got nothing to lose at this point and hey, they might surprise you (or not). But damn, I get your frustration... those guides should include a "How Not to Lose Your Sanity" chapter because these social deserts are brutal!!!

hmmm... sounds rough dude. i've been there too sorta wondering if it's us or if they're really cold.

I hear ya, moving can be a real pain. It's wild how people in big cities can sometimes feel more distant than in small towns, right? Maybe it's not about giving up on them but finding those few who do actually care; there's gotta be someone out there who sees you for you and will vibe with that energy 💪

it's like workplaces have become these sterile environments where everyone just clocks in and out, forgetting that human connection is even a thing. it’s nuts how people can spend all day around others and still act like it's solitary confinement. i hear you though... sometimes it feels like you're living in one of those "black mirror" episodes where social skills are practically obsolete. maybe you could try stepping outside the work bubble? sometimes broader social circles help; i knew this guy who moved to a new city and found his tribe through meetup groups centered on random hobbies like hiking or board games. might be worth exploring as an alternative to feeling invisible at work.

Dang, sounds rough. It's seriously messed up when you're trying to make an effort and it's like talking to a wall. Honestly, these people sound like they need a wake-up call about basic decency. Maybe hit up some local groups or clubs outside of work? Sometimes you find the best folks where you least expect it.

Maybe try finding common interests?

man, the office sounds rough but maybe you're looking at it a bit wrong. new places can feel super isolating if you just rely on work for your social fix... how about giving neighborhood activities a shot? sometimes coworker bonds take forever to grow so parallel paths might help; i mean, there are people out there who'd appreciate having a newcomer in their group. and who knows... exploring the city outside its surface glam might turn out more engaging than expected!

Have you tried joining meetups or anything like that?