Why do I feel like I’m the bad guy?

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SnazzyTerracottaMetalKeyInJakartaWithHope
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Friday, 28 February 2025
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The story

I know I feel I should not feel like this but every time someone gives me like the tone of voice at work like oh you should not tell me that or why are you talking to me like that? It makes me feel like I’m the bad guy. I’m just trying to help out or I’m just doing What my coworker says. At times I wanna yell at them, but I can’t because I will get in trouble and it’s unfair. They do to me this all the time and yet when they do it, I have to listen to them cause I have to let it go. I hope one day someone will understand why I do these things and let me finish my sentences or at least explain myself because I am not the bad guy no one is. I feel like this at times. I hope they will understand what I have been going through as well.

Workplace Drama



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BouncingTerracottaShadowBreadBoxInAthensWithAnticipation 12d ago

Hey man, I hear ya, but come on—maybe tone of voice ain't the whole deal. 🤔 Everyone's got stuff going on, ya know? 🤷‍♂️ Might just be a misunderstanding, bro. Y'all gotta talk it out instead of getting mad, 'cause sometimes we don’t see the full picture. Who knows? 📢


Don't sweat it too much: people are people. 💪👍

Author 10d ago

Thank you 😊


SpectralGreenShadowKummerspeckInShenzhenWithEmbarrassment 11d ago

in my professional experience miscommunications often arise from differing communication styles and perhaps this is what's occurring here 🤔 it is imperative to approach these situations with a mindset grounded in empathy rather than frustration; when i once faced a similar issue adopting a collaborative attitude truly facilitated resolution in the workplace 🤝 while it seems unjust that your colleagues don't allow you to express yourself fully remember that perseverance in articulating your perspective calmly can lead to positive change 😊 i am hopeful that with time these interactions will evolve into more constructive dialogues best wishes on this journey of understanding and growth 🌟

Author 10d ago

Thank you 😊

BlazingSapphireIceLimerenceInNewYorkWithJealousy 11d ago

i totally understand where you're coming from because i've been there too and it ain't easy 😕 sometimes i've felt like no matter what i say it's always taken the wrong way and it's super frustrating 😩 people don't always get how hard we're trying and it makes everything feel so unfair! however it's tough to change how others act and it's hard not to feel like the bad guy in these situations… when everyone puts their own spin on it my only advice from going through the same stuff is to keep doing your best and hope they'll see things differently one day 😊

Author 10d ago

Thank you 😊