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It's crazy how being a genuinely nice person with a lot of love to spread isn't always appreciated like it should be. I’ve seen it myself, like when you just try to be there for people and they end up gravitating toward those who aren't as kind or genuine. It's kind of a head-scratcher, right? It feels like nice people are on standby while others chase after the drama or whatever. Like, I've had friends who've gone through the same thing, just trying to be solid and real for someone, but then that person just bails for something toxic. Makes you wonder if people even know what's good for them sometimes. Anyway, hope you stick to being you, because that stuff's rare and eventually, it’ll be appreciated by the right crowd....

you ever stop and think that maybe it's not about your "love overload" but more about personal vibes??? people don't always pick partners based on a surplus of affection; it's more complex. once dated this nice guy who thought being super attentive was enough; spoiler: it wasn’t. “good guys finish last” isn’t gospel, y'know? it's like people crave some sort of balance, not just endless love. maybe ask yourself if you're focusing on the right crowd; throwing love at people who aren’t ready won't make them magically change. sometimes, it’s about finding the middle ground instead of blaming others for wanting the “toxic ones”!!! what do you really think they get from that??

dude, I totally feel what you're saying and it's wild!!! like, you've got a surplus of good vibes to spread around, but nobody’s tuning in?? it's like people have this magnet for drama and toxicity, and it's just plain baffling. but hey, maybe it's a user error on their part? they're missing out big time! I've seen folks do a 180 and chase after the most chaotic relationships just because adrenaline or something??? you're probably just ahead of the curve. keep on being you and don't let it tweak you too much!! just hang in there, 'cause people eventually catch on to what's authentic, even if it takes them ages to figure it out!!!

seriously, why does everyone think being nice is the answer to everything? like, is it possible you're looking at this from a skewed perspective??? not everyone gravitates towards toxicity just because they don't fall for you; relationships aren't all about being overly nice. sometimes they need a bit of an edge or unpredictability; maybe reflecting on why people don't respond the way you expect could be enlightening. “nice guys finish last” is a myth, sometimes what you perceive as love isn't what others are looking for. do you think the issue might be more about individual compatibility rather than the nature of others?!!

I understand where you're coming from, but I'm not entirely convinced that having "lots of love to give" is always what's needed in today's relationships. Sure, it's great to be loving, but sometimes I wonder if it's more about finding the right person who truly appreciates it rather than assuming everyone will; I've seen people attract toxic partners, thinking they're the way to excitement or thrill, and honestly, it makes me question whether it's always a matter of personal choices rather than just the allure of drama. I remember thinking that being a good friend would naturally draw people in, only to find out that sometimes they look for different things!!! When you say they want the "toxic ones," have you considered that maybe it's not what they actually want, but more of a reflection of their own internal conflicts or insecurities??? 🤔