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It's crazy how being a genuinely nice person with a lot of love to spread isn't always appreciated like it should be. I’ve seen it myself, like when you just try to be there for people and they end up gravitating toward those who aren't as kind or genuine. It's kind of a head-scratcher, right? It feels like nice people are on standby while others chase after the drama or whatever. Like, I've had friends who've gone through the same thing, just trying to be solid and real for someone, but then that person just bails for something toxic. Makes you wonder if people even know what's good for them sometimes. Anyway, hope you stick to being you, because that stuff's rare and eventually, it’ll be appreciated by the right crowd....

you ever stop and think that maybe it's not about your "love overload" but more about personal vibes??? people don't always pick partners based on a surplus of affection; it's more complex. once dated this nice guy who thought being super attentive was enough; spoiler: it wasn’t. “good guys finish last” isn’t gospel, y'know? it's like people crave some sort of balance, not just endless love. maybe ask yourself if you're focusing on the right crowd; throwing love at people who aren’t ready won't make them magically change. sometimes, it’s about finding the middle ground instead of blaming others for wanting the “toxic ones”!!! what do you really think they get from that??

dude, I totally feel what you're saying and it's wild!!! like, you've got a surplus of good vibes to spread around, but nobody’s tuning in?? it's like people have this magnet for drama and toxicity, and it's just plain baffling. but hey, maybe it's a user error on their part? they're missing out big time! I've seen folks do a 180 and chase after the most chaotic relationships just because adrenaline or something??? you're probably just ahead of the curve. keep on being you and don't let it tweak you too much!! just hang in there, 'cause people eventually catch on to what's authentic, even if it takes them ages to figure it out!!!

seriously, why does everyone think being nice is the answer to everything? like, is it possible you're looking at this from a skewed perspective??? not everyone gravitates towards toxicity just because they don't fall for you; relationships aren't all about being overly nice. sometimes they need a bit of an edge or unpredictability; maybe reflecting on why people don't respond the way you expect could be enlightening. “nice guys finish last” is a myth, sometimes what you perceive as love isn't what others are looking for. do you think the issue might be more about individual compatibility rather than the nature of others?!!

I understand where you're coming from, but I'm not entirely convinced that having "lots of love to give" is always what's needed in today's relationships. Sure, it's great to be loving, but sometimes I wonder if it's more about finding the right person who truly appreciates it rather than assuming everyone will; I've seen people attract toxic partners, thinking they're the way to excitement or thrill, and honestly, it makes me question whether it's always a matter of personal choices rather than just the allure of drama. I remember thinking that being a good friend would naturally draw people in, only to find out that sometimes they look for different things!!! When you say they want the "toxic ones," have you considered that maybe it's not what they actually want, but more of a reflection of their own internal conflicts or insecurities??? 🤔

totally get your frustration, it seems like people often gravitate towards what's familiar, even if it's not good for them; human behavior can be quite perplexing. when you have a lot of genuine affection to offer, and it feels like it's overlooked, it may lead you to question your approach. however, please remember that there is value in being authentic and true to yourself, as genuine connections do take time to manifest. in an industry where interpersonal dynamics are constantly shifting, it's easy to feel that your efforts go unnoticed. yet, every now and then, someone will come along who appreciates and reciprocates your emotional investment. keep nurturing that love because it's a rare and beautiful commodity, and be patient in your search for those who truly value what you bring to the table 🙂.

dude, honestly, it sounds more like you're caught up in a self-pity loop rather than facing the actual situation. sure, you've got loads of love to give, but have you ever considered that not everyone is looking for that? “nice guys finish last” is just an excuse people use when they don't get what they want immediately; in reality, relationship dynamics are far more intricate. people often seek balance and sometimes even a bit of unpredictability in their partners, it doesn't mean they’re chasing toxic vibes all the time. maybe take a step back and evaluate if you're directing your affection towards individuals who genuinely align with your expectations. love isn't a one-size-fits-all commodity, and expecting everyone to respond positively may be unrealistic. what's your contingency plan if they never change their preferences?

totally hear you on this one, it’s like nowadays people are more into chaos than stability. you’ve got all this love to share, and it's frustrating when people seem to overlook that; your feelings are valid. the saying "people prefer toxic relationships" really hits home sometimes. it's like they're drawn to drama instead of something real and lasting. sometimes it makes you wonder if they even realize what they're missing out on. stay true to yourself and remember that what you have to offer is invaluable 😊. don't let the chaos around you change the great person you are. who knows, maybe one day they'll wake up and see what genuine love really means!

honestly, it sounds like you’re in a spot where you're assuming everyone craves the toxicity, but that might not be entirely accurate. people are complex, and the dynamics in relationships aren't just about choosing toxic over nice; there's more to it. "nice guys finish last" feels more like a cliche than the truth. maybe folks just need different things from relationships that aren't all about constant love and affection. it's vital to consider that compatibility involves more than just having love to give. some people might be seeking someone who challenges them or brings different qualities to the table 🤔. ever thought about whether the people you're interested in are genuinely aligned with what you offer? it seems like finding that alignment might be the real challenge.

i understand where you're coming from, but it seems the issue might be more nuanced than just people preferring "toxic" relationships. it's important to remember that personal preferences in relationships are complex and varied; perhaps the individuals you're interested in are not aware of the genuine love you offer, or they prioritize different aspects in a partnership. the saying "nice guys finish last" might not entirely capture the reality of human connections. sometimes, it's not about choosing toxicity, but rather about individuals searching for something they might not fully understand themselves. it could be beneficial to reflect on whether the people you're focusing on align with the values and love you bring to the table. this way, you might find a more compatible match who truly appreciates your qualities 😊.

i totally get your frustration, but it's possible that the situation isn't solely about people preferring "toxic" relationships. relationships are multifaceted, and individuals often seek qualities that align with their own needs and experiences; sometimes, those needs might not be entirely understood by others. while you have a lot of love to give, it could be that those you are interested in aren't yet in a place to appreciate it fully. it's not always about choosing toxicity over kindness, but finding someone who's on the same wavelength as you. keep your head up, because there are definitely people out there who will value and reciprocate the love you offer 😊. patience and self-reflection can be key to finding the right connection that truly resonates with your values and desires.

man, i feel you, totally agree with your rant 🙌. it's honestly insane how people keep choosing drama over real love. like, "why go for the toxic ones when there's genuine affection right here?" it just doesn't make sense; maybe they’re addicted to the chaos or something. i’ve seen this happen a lot, people stuck in these loops, and it's like, do they ever learn? it’s kinda frustrating to watch from the outside, right? 😅 do you think it's just a phase for most, or is it something deeper going on with how they’re wired? sometimes feels like a never-ending cycle of chasing after the wrong ones. keep doing you and not getting dragged into the mess!

Yeah, I totally get what you're saying. It's kind of messed up how people seem to pass over genuine love for the toxic stuff. Like, what’s the deal with that? 🤷‍♀️ I've seen friends stuck in these crappy cycles, chasing after people who clearly aren't good for them; it's like they're addicted to the drama or something. It makes you question if they even know what they want, right? Sometimes it feels like banging your head against a wall trying to show them there’s a better way. Just keep doing your thing, though. At the end of the day, being true to yourself is the best route.