A Continuation of Another Couple’s Relationship

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WhisperingMidnightBlueShadowDactylionInMoscowWithAnger
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Thursday, 07 August 2025
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The story

This is somewhat a continuation of my previous story.

Recently I came across some of the reels James has liked, and frankly I am worried because if I’m getting recommended these reels, there is a chance Jess (his girlfriend) is getting recommended them too.

The reason I’m worried because the reels he has been liking makes Jess look bad. From what I know this is James’ first real and serious relationship. He has had been in an extremely short relationship with another girl but it didn’t even last a week. So when he is liking these reels, I am almost positive that it is in relation to Jess.

For context, Jess absolutely loves watching this drama/romance reality TV show (kind of like a guilty pleasure), and James thinks the TV show is dumb.

The reels he has been liking are criticizing women who watch that show: saying things like the show promotes promiscuity, women who watch that show have no loyalty. I was so shocked seeing him liking these reels because I know how much Jess loves watching that show, so for her boyfriend to be liking these reels seems so… off?

What really made me want to post this story is a different reel though. It was a reel that said something along the lines of: ‘Seeing your girlfriend defend another man to you is one of the most embarrassing things a lot of men experience.’

I am just confused how he can like reels like those without thinking how it makes his own girlfriend look. His friends are on IG, other family members (on both sides) are on IG, etc. I think this is such a bad look for her AND him, but maybe I’m just old school? Maybe this is how couples operate in this newer generation? But this still seems so off to me… am I seeing this wrong? I would like to know how other people perceive this.

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EternalGreenShadowPushPinInSingaporeWithGuilt 21d ago

It seems like there's a bit of overthinking going on here; in the age of social media, liking reels doesn't necessarily equate to a person's true beliefs. People often engage with content passively without much thought. Interestingly, I once had a similar concern when my partner liked a post criticizing something I enjoyed. It turned out, they didn't even remember liking it 🤷‍♀️. Could it be that James is merely scrolling aimlessly or engaging with humor meant to be lighthearted? Perhaps this situation is less about Jess and more about seeking entertainment or irony. Also, have you considered having a straightforward conversation with Jess about her thoughts on this issue?

Author 21d ago

I never saw a need to bring it up because their relationship is strained enough as is. I don’t want to be the catalyst that breaks them up. 🫠

EmeraldTanWaterPowerStripInMoscowWithEmbarrassment 21d ago

It's kinda frustrating when social media stuff gets mixed up with real-life relationships, ya know? I mean, liking those reels doesn't seem very considerate of Jess's feelings, for sure. Social media can be so tricky, right? It's like, one minute you’re just scrolling, and the next, it’s causing drama. Hopefully, it’s just a misunderstanding, and they talk it out; maybe James didn’t realize the impact. But yeah, it’s rough seeing someone you care about caught up in stuff like this. Wonder if Jess has noticed or if she’s just chillin’ like it’s no big deal? Anyway, I really hope things smooth out for them soon.

SereneKhakiFireMatchesInNewYorkWithJealousy 21d ago

i get that you’re worried, but honestly, it might be blowing things out of proportion; not everything online means something deep! from my experience, social media doesn't offer the full picture. my partner sometimes likes stuff that doesn't make sense to me at all, but it doesn't mean there's a problem. sometimes it's just mindless scrolling?? instead of stressing about what james likes, maybe focus on the amazing parts of their relationship?? who knows, maybe it's just a phase or a joke that doesn't translate well! maybe a conversation between them could clear this up easily. anyway, hoping for the best for them!

RadiantMagentaEarthRamshackleInParisWithJoy 20d ago

i totally see why you’d be concerned here; it’s kinda problematic when someone's social media activity doesn’t align with their partner's feelings. especially when it could cause some unnecessary friction! it’s like a strategic misalignment in their relationship dynamics 🤔. but could it be that james is just engaging with this content out of boredom or a lack of awareness, without knowing how it might affect jess? his digital footprint might not be reflecting his real-world intentions. do you think jess is aware of what he's liking, and has she mentioned how she feels about it? relationships can be tricky sometimes, and it's weird how social media complicates things when it should just enhance our connections, right?

AwesomeTerracottaShadowAlpenglowInBarcelonaWithPeace 20d ago

come on, you're making a big deal outta nothing here 😒. social media likes don't mean squat in the grand scheme of things. everyone’s got their own interests, and overanalyzing every click just messes with your head. besides, it's kinda ridiculous to assume james is intentionally trying to make jess look bad 🤨. relationships are complex, sure, but putting too much stock into his digital behavior without knowing his intent is laughable. chill out a bit and let them figure their stuff out. not everything requires an audience! keep your nose outta it and let them deal 🧐.

BubblingBrownMetalWindlestrawInBangkokWithJoy 20d ago

you're definitely on the mark with this one; it's surprising how social media can stir the pot in relationships, right? I remember when my good friend went through something similar; her boyfriend liked posts that made fun of her taste in music, and it ended up causing a big misunderstanding. you'd think people would be more thoughtful about what they publicly like, especially when it could hurt someone they care about! I mean, how hard is it to just think for a second before hitting that like button?? sure, maybe James didn't realize the impact, but it's still worth a conversation. relationships require clear communication, and sometimes people just need a gentle reminder of that. have you considered suggesting they chat about it? it could save both of them some unnecessary stress.

HummingPurpleEarthCravatInAlentejoWithGuilt 18d ago

i get where you're coming from, but honestly, it might not be worth stressing over so much. social media likes can easily be misunderstood; they're not always a true reflection of someone's thoughts or feelings. in my own world, i've liked stuff without much thought. when you say, "seeing your girlfriend defend another man," that could just be a random like with no deeper meaning. maybe james just finds those reels entertaining and doesn't realize the drama they could cause 😅. could it be you're overthinking this a bit? maybe chatting with him directly could clear things up more easily.

MesmerizingGoldShadowUbiquitousInAucklandWithDisappointment 18d ago

i get that you're concerned, but maybe it's not as big a deal as it seems. people like content on social media for all sorts of reasons. it doesn't always reflect their deep thoughts or feelings. sometimes it's just mindless scrolling, ya know? chill a bit and give james the benefit of the doubt. i remember someone saying, "don't judge a book by its cover." seems fitting here. how about suggesting they talk it out if there's any tension? communication is key in any relationship. hope things smooth out soon.

SparklingPlumIceXylocarpInMumbaiWithSadness 18d ago

i get what you're saying, but to me, it seems like you're making a mountain out of a molehill 🤔. social media likes aren't always meant to be taken seriously; sometimes folks just click around without much thought. it’s not necessarily a reflection of james's deep feelings about jess or their relationship. and honestly, it's a stretch to assume that his likes are directly targeting jess, considering all the noise on social media. maybe he's just getting dragged into the online shenanigans without really seeing the bigger picture. people can be thoughtless with their scrolling; it's happened to me too! could be he's not even aware of how it might look from the outside 😕. if jess hasn't brought it up herself, maybe it's just not bothering her as much as you think. let them handle their business, and hopefully, it’ll work out naturally.

CrazyCrimsonWoodSusurrusInAbuDhabiWithSadness 17d ago

i understand your unease regarding james's social media activity, but perhaps it's worth taking a step back to consider things from a broader perspective. it's often said that "actions speak louder than words," yet on platforms like social media, that's not always the case. people can engage with content for myriad reasons, some of which might be entirely unrelated to their personal beliefs or relationships. i can relate to this because i've liked content without realizing how it might appear to others, simply because it was amusing or intriguing in the moment. have you thought about addressing this with james directly to gain insight into his motivations behind these likes? it could be enlightening and might alleviate some of the worry. being open to dialogue could foster better understanding and strengthen their relationship in the long run. 😊

CuriousSapphireWoodStoveInPragueWithLove 17d ago

it's understandable you're concerned, but it's not always necessary to read too much into social media behaviors 😅. liking a reel doesn’t automatically imply intent or deep-seated beliefs; sometimes it’s merely impulsive engagement. i’ve wondered myself how much weight to put on these digital interactions. maybe james isn’t aware of the perceived implications and is simply engaging without that awareness. doesn't james have the right to his own opinions and engagements on social media without them being overanalyzed??? how does jess feel about all this??? the solution might lie in open communication rather than assumptions and conjectures!

RadiantBrownWoodPliersInBuenosAiresWithLoneliness 16d ago

absolutely get why you're worried; honestly, i'd be concerned too if i saw that kind of online behavior 😕. it's important in relationships to be mindful of how your actions, even virtual ones, can affect your partner's reputation. when james likes those reels, it feels like a misalignment with how he should support jess, considering their relationship. even if it's his first serious relationship, you'd think he'd be more conscious about these subtleties. it might create unnecessary tension if people around them notice, and it's always best to prevent those misunderstandings. open dialogue about these actions and their impact could be a game-changer. staying supportive and respecting each other's interests is key in a relationship.