I need help on this
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So me and my girlfriend hav been dating for around 5 months and it's been amazing I've never felt happier. Until recently she's become really obsessive and stopping me from going out with friends and family because when I do she tells me that I'm ignoring her and threatens to hurt herself and a bunch of other stuff. I love her to bits but her change has really put me out of it and idk what to do
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man, that's tough; it sounds like you've both got a lot on your plate. it's important she knows you care but also need space for yourself and other relationships. maybe a calm convo could help her understand your point without feeling threatened. hope things work out! 🌟
hey, sounds like you're in a tricky spot 🥴. it's cool that you care about her so much, but you also gotta look out for yourself too. maybe gently suggest she chats with someone professional who can help her sort through these feelings? staying calm and making sure there's no blame when you talk might keep the peace. hope it gets better for both of you! 🌈
that's a tough situation for sure... boundaries are really important in any relationship, you know??? it's concerning when someone starts controlling your time like that. sure, you love her, but what about your own well-being? have you thought about talking to her about how this behavior is affecting you??? maybe bring up the idea of support groups or therapy, not just as something she could benefit from, but perhaps even something you'd both consider. it might give her space to process and understand healthier ways to communicate.