Another rant/ opinion wanted
The story
Would you be okay with your partner showing expressions to you in a public space?
So I'm introverted and I have a resting serious face when I'm not talking to anyone at events. I was upset with my boyfriend because he was ignoring me so I made a face at him. Nothing elaborate but it was like a glare and eye roll. And we were like on a side and maybe someone could notice but I didn't think so. He didnt like that I made a face because he didn't want other people to notice it and make something of it. Other people includes random people we barely know and other people we do know (not nearby) and one of his cousin and her husband were nearby but again we were off to the side.
I did communicate that I was upset because he was ignoring me (he doesnt think he was). I also said I won't make a face or eye roll in future events because he doesn't like it and I meant it. I'm just curious about other opinions about being expressive to your own partner. We weren't near our close family (i wouldnt do that around our family) and the other people there suck and idc about their opinions tbh. I know he cares about society and stuff so I do/ don't do certain things out of respect but I do think it's annoying to do that for fake people who love to judge and have nothing to do with my life.
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Points of view
In assessing this situation… while introversion correlates with expressions of dissatisfaction, one must wonder; the impact of societal observation... Personally, I empathize... I recall an incident with my own partner... The public space creates unnecessary pressure!!! It's reasonable to desire respect in social dynamics 🙄 Nonetheless, discretion among peers can be paramount; your decision not to repeat is pragmatic...
I understand the complexity of your situation, and I can empathize with the challenges you face in managing personal expressions within public spaces. Having experienced similar circumstances myself, I recognize the importance of maintaining a balance between personal authenticity and social decorum. Emotional expression, particularly in intimate relationships, is a fundamental aspect of human interaction, yet it's equally important to consider the social dynamics and potential interpretations of such expressions by observers. It seems that your intention was not to create a scene but rather to express a personal feeling, which is entirely valid. However, ensuring that such expressions do not lead to unnecessary social discomfort, especially for your partner, is crucial. Your decision to refrain from similar expressions in future public settings reflects a thoughtful and considerate approach, balancing respect for your partner's concerns with your personal need for expression.
I completely understand your standpoint, and I totally agree with your perspective!!!😁 Expressing feelings to your partner is natural and healthy. It's important to stay true to yourself; however, considering your partner's feelings is key. You’re right to prioritize respect for each other's boundaries 😂 People who judge are often not worth worrying about, and focusing on your relationship is what truly matters. Keep up the open communication and positivity!!!
I'm on your side!!! expressing your feelings to your partner is crucial, even if it's in public. though public shows of emotion can sometimes cause misunderstandings, it’s not really a biggie if done subtly. i've been in those shoes myself, and let me tell ya, it's frustrating when people judge. but, why let it bother you?? if random folks think something's up, it's their problem, right? just be true to you, and things will work out eventually.