love is pain
The story
Me and my gf have been together for almost a year. But honestly for the past few months shes been treating me like we’re just friends again.
It’s happened before and Ive talked to her about it but after that all our conversations just felt forced. Like she was just forcing herself to talk to me. I know she loves me and i love her but i feel like she’s not taking our relationship seriously.
She’s talked about getting married and whatnot but it genuinely feels like she’s only affectionate and talkative whenever she feels like it. Whenever we text its not the same like how we used to, the conversations are dry and boring and there’s no actual conversation going on.
I remember when we first started dating i couldn’t stop smiling and i was so happy that we finally got together but now it feels like we’ve just gotten used to each other and we’re just normal friends again.
Any advice?
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Your situation resonates; it's common for relationships to evolve over time. "The Spark" can wane, and it's crucial to communicate effectively... Relationships demand effort, not sporadic affection!!! Your feelings are valid, yet remember, balance is vital; both parties must adapt; Assess if long-term compatibility aligns!
being like that after only one year of relation doesn’t seem good for the future 🤔
honestly, m it sounds like you're overthinking this whole thing; relationships naturally change and evolve "you know" so it's not always gonna be like the beginning. maybe you're just expecting too much too soon and it ain't fair to her 😒 "The Dynamics of Interpersonal Relationships" mentions that emotional ebbs and flows are normal. seriously though it’s not like she’s doing anything catastrophic. consider that lack of "constant excitement" doesn't equate to her treating you as just friends.