Being gay isn't easy

man, i totally get where you're coming from 😔 the whole dating scene is just brutal, especially when you're trying to navigate it with all these societal expectations and prejudices hanging over your head. it sounds like you're experiencing what's often referred to as "internalized homophobia," which is just wild. like, how can someone be homophobic and gay at the same time? makes no sense 🤷‍♂️ i've seen it happen though, stereotypes getting in the way of being true to yourself.

and let's not even start with how people are always quick to label you and put you in a box 🤦‍♂️ like, just because you're gay doesn't mean you have to fit into some kind of preconceived notion. not everyone wants to paint rainbows and march in parades, u know? your personal journey is just that, personal.

honestly, being called 'hot' by people ain't the validation it seems, right? it's like, cool, i'm attractive but at what cost if i can't even find someone who sees me for who i really am 🤔 it's like what they say in psychology, the "halo effect" - just because you're perceived as attractive doesn't mean everything falls into place or that people will actually want to invest in something long-term with you 😤

you should know you’re not alone, although it definitely feels that way sometimes. the world can be a cruel and intolerant place, but there’s always a community out there that will accept you for who you are. just keep being you, even when it feels impossible.📢 stay strong, this too shall pass, even if it's taking its sweet time to do so...

i hear what you're saying, but maybe there's a different way to look at this 🤔 being gay can be challenging, but it doesn't necessarily mean love is an insurmountable obstacle. you know the concept of "perception is reality"? i’ve found that sometimes when we focus too much on the negative, everything starts to seem bleaker. maybe it's not that there aren't any potential partners; maybe it's just you're not looking in the right places or projecting the confidence someone might be drawn to;

i get that the world can be harsh, and everyone deals with their share of struggles, gay or straight 😕 don't get me wrong, i'm not downplaying your feelings — they're valid! but generalizing your experiences as universally negative might not do justice to the entire spectrum of your reality. you mentioned that "everyone has different perspectives" and that's true!!! but navigating those perspectives is part of defining who you are within the community and beyond.

and hey, who’s to say being 'hot' doesn’t give you an advantage? maybe it’s about finding those who value more than just physical attraction but also who appreciates the deeper connection 💡 it’s kind of like what they say, "don't judge a book by its cover," right? maybe the challenge here is to translate the “external validation” into meaningful interactions.

being alone in this can definitely feel like a heavy burden!!! but keep in mind there’s always a way forward; sometimes it just takes reflection and maybe some courage to reach out to new people or communities 🌱 you might just find someone who shares your journey.

the struggle to find love can feel exceptionally overwhelming when you're carrying the weight of societal expectations regarding your sexuality. it's like navigating a minefield of misunderstandings and preconceived notions, which can inevitably lead to a sense of isolation.

i do understand that having no one to confide in about your experiences magnifies the loneliness; but keep in mind, you're definitely not alone in this journey. many people face similar challenges and perceptions, and finding a supportive community could make a significant difference.

you mention that people perceive your life as chaotic; consider that perhaps their perspectives are misguided or lacking the empathy needed to understand your reality. it seems you're not alone in grappling with internalized prejudices, even among those who share your orientation.

while it may seem daunting now, there is often light at the end of the tunnel. emotional health is vital, and taking steps to address it, whether through self-reflection or reaching out to communities, can result in profound personal growth. being "hot" might bring certain assumptions, but genuine connections transcend physical appearance. keep striving to live authentically, and the world may eventually feel less harsh 🌈

hey, I totally get where you're coming from, and it's clear you're going through a lot. being gay can indeed make finding love feel really hard sometimes, especially when dealing with all those different societal expectations and pressures. it seems like you're caught in a tough spot where you feel isolated from your friends because they don't know about your orientation; that must be really challenging to navigate.

the idea of internalized homophobia is definitely a thing, and encountering it from others within the community can be super confusing. it's tough when you have to keep your feelings and experiences to yourself, hiding something so fundamental to who you are can take a toll on your well-being.

it's natural to wonder how life might be different if things were another way, but remember that you're unique and your journey is yours alone. being 'hot' might seem like an advantage, but meaningful connections go beyond surface-level attributes. your journey to finding the right partner might have more bumps than you'd like, but it's a path that many are on, struggling with the same feelings.

you've got every reason to hope for better days and more understanding people. it's great you're seeking ways to feel better and live the life you deserve; don't lose sight of that inner strength. keep reaching out when you need to vent like this, it really helps to let it all out sometimes. 🌟

dude, i get it but disagree a bit. being gay doesn’t automatically mean life’s hell. dating’s tough for everyone, not just you. ever heard “best things in life aren't easy?” maybe just gotta keep trying 🤔 life’s chaos isn’t always about being gay; lots of people, gay or straight, deal with issues. i had a straight friend who thought his life sucked too, but kept going and found what he was lookin' for.

about those hot comments, looks ain't everything, trust me. had the "hot" label but didn’t make dating easier for me. focus on finding people who actually vibe with you. you say guys say there’s no future; maybe they got their own baggage? but hey, don’t let it drag you down. just a thought 💭

hey, i feel ya and get what you're saying. being gay can be tough, no doubt!! navigating love is like solving a puzzle with pieces missing. you mentioned chaos, and it's true, sometimes life’s wild. i've been there too, where everything feels like a mess??!!

but remember, "life finds a way" as they say. there’s hope in knowing others have walked similar paths and found happiness. you got people calling you hot, so there's something special there. maybe embrace that and let it guide you to new connections.

the world's not always kind, but keep your chin up. you never know what tomorrow brings!!! finding the right crowd can change everything, trust me. keep pushing forward; brighter days are ahead.

hey, i hear what you're saying, but maybe there's another way to look at it. sure, being gay can come with its challenges, but who isn’t facing something tough in the dating world? i mean, everybody's got their own kind of chaos to deal with, right? it’s like that quote, "everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about." maybe it's not just about your sexual orientation making things hard.

like, the idea of feeling isolated because your friends don't know? that sounds rough, but opening up could sometimes surprise you with how understanding people can be. you think guys say there's no future, but who really knows what the future holds??? maybe they’ve got their own issues to sort out.

there’s this thing where sometimes what feels like a curse could actually be something else. personal growth isn’t always easy, but it could lead to something better. take it from me – i've had to work through my own stuff too, and it’s not always as bad as it seems. keep your head up and maybe consider that things could turn out differently than you think. just some food for thought!

man, i totally get where you're coming from, and it sucks that it's this way 😔 being gay and finding love can feel like an uphill battle sometimes. it's like being in a game that's stacked against you. all the stereotypes and misunderstandings make it rough, for real.

you say you keep it under wraps from your friends, but wouldn't it help if they knew the real you? they're your friends for a reason; maybe they're more understanding than you think. "everyone has different perspectives," and it's true, but sometimes opening up can change that perspective for the better;

and about guys saying there's no future—how frustrating is that? maybe those dudes just can't handle the reality of commitment, so it's probs better they're not around. their loss, honestly. just gotta keep your head up and keep pushing on. it’s tough out there, but there’s always hope for something better. if you think this is as bad as it gets, imagine how awesome it’ll feel when things start to change for the better? ever think of trying to find a community that can truly understand and support you? just something to consider.