I don't know if my relationship is real.
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I have a gf, and we've been dating for a couple months. I'm kinda uncomfortable with the lovey dovey things but sometimes I'm cool w it. Today I visited her place and told her that I wasn't ready for a relationship and that I may be aroace, this wasn't the first time this happened tho (Our relationship has been an off and on switch mostly because of me, I keep telling her that I'm not really ready for a relationship or that I'm not attracted to her but I still get into a relationship w her just bc of a "feeling").
I don't know why she still wants to be in a relationship with me, it's so obvious that we won't work out. I'm such a jerk really. I hate seeing the look on her face when I tell her that were not gonna work out. I hate it, so so much.
Ignore my grammar mistakes :')
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yeah man, totally get it... relationships can be so tricky, you know;;; i was in this situation once, kinda stuck in a loop of breaking-up and getting back together... felt real lousy. it's like you wanna feel something but just can't make it happen? idk, guess you gotta sorta figure yourself out first! but yeah, it ain't easy!!! 🤔 kinda makes you wonder if it’s even worth the hassle sometimes;
But is anything real in this World?
Ok dude 😬😅
I understand your situation, and it sounds really tough. Relationships can be complicated, especially when you’re unsure of your feelings. 😅 It's important to communicate openly and figure out what you really want. “Honesty is the best policy,” as they say, and it seems like you're trying to be honest with her.
Maybe taking some time for yourself could help clear things up. It’s okay to feel confused, but clarity can really make a difference. 😊
come on, dude, this ain't fair to her... maybe you gotta think 'bout what you really want before dragging her along again and again; i've seen this happen too many times, and it just ends up hurting everyone involved. i once did the same thing, kept bouncing back and forth... not proud of it. it's like you're stringing her along, and that's just not cool!!! 😟 maybe try figuring yourself out first instead of keeping her in this loop. it ain't easy, but it's the right thing to do, you know?