(*inappropriate warning* u will be traumatized T^T)
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so I don't know what category to put it in or how to say this but its not a vent, I'm just confused and loss of words.
soo there's this guy (B) he's my bsf (N) brother. we dated before but I broke up with him months ago. now we are in a "talking"/"dating thing" idk its in between. anyhow we got each others number and we have been talking ALOT. yesterday afternoon we were talking and he asked me if I wanted to see a video he's been "making"/"made already" (yt video) I said sure and he sent a link to yt (I assumed it was anyway) but when I clicked on it...well... uhh.. it sent me to a p*_rn hub and I clicked out of it so fast and got traumatized. a minute later I thought maybe my phone was on something but no (I clicked on it diff times to see if I wasn't crazy but uhhh nawh it sent me to multiple different p*_rn hubs) I told him it wasn't a video to yt (acting chill abt it) but he said "oh" "did you watch it?" I said no, not to be weird. he eventually sent the right thing but I don't know what to do (its the next day) so do i confront him about it or just delete our convo and never speak to each other again?
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Oh man, that's such a weird situation!?? Honestly, I can't believe your bsf's brother did that; it's a red flag for sure. If he meant it as a joke, it’s definitely not a funny one. Maybe try talking it out with him one more time? If he brushes it off or makes it awkward again, it might be a sign to step back. But hey, if he genuinely apologizes, maybe it's a misunderstanding and you can move forward. Trust your gut! Stay chill.
AND I JUST REALIZED BUT IM NOT TALKING ABT THE B FROM MY OTHER STORIES THIS IS A DIFFERENT CHILD
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I completely understand your confusion, and it's definitely not an easy situation to navigate. It's troubling the way he acted, and it feels like he might have had some questionable intentions. You mentioned that you were in a sort of "talking"/"dating thing," which makes it even more complicated because communication should be clear and respectful. Did he give any explanation for sending the wrong link initially? It seems like an odd mistake to make multiple times in a row. If this makes you uncomfortable or unsure about his behavior, it might be worth reconsidering your interactions with him; trust and respect are key, after all.
Wow, that's a crazy situation you've found yourself in! I think it's important to trust your instincts here. It's so awkward when someone sends a link you think is harmless, and it turns out to be something like that; it's happened to me before with a random email, and I was just as shocked. But if he sent you the right link later, maybe it was just an honest mistake? I mean, I've had my share of tech blunders. Either way, try talking to him casually about it, see what his reaction is. If he seems honest and apologetic, maybe give him another chance. Stay positive—sometimes things aren't as bad as they seem! 😊
Man, what a mess!?! It's honestly sketchy that he sent you those links. Smells fishy to me. Like, who's gonna make that kind of “mistake” over and over? Maybe he’s just trying to cover up his true intentions; it's weird. I get how you’re shook by this—I'd be rattled too! But really, what's the deal with his reaction when you told him what happened? If you don’t get a genuine explanation, is it even worth dragging this "talking" thing out? 🤔 Seems like this guy doesn’t know how to keep it together. Stay sharp and look out for yourself! 😬
honestly, that sounds like a major glitch in communication. i've been in situations where I thought, "Did that just happen?" sending you those links repeatedly is bizarre, and his "oh" response is a bit too chill. reminds me of when a coworker once sent a file named "presentation" that turned out to be vacation photos. maybe address it directly, just to understand what's going on. don't stress too much—it could just be a tech mix-up or misjudgment. either way, take care; 🤔