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There is thi guy i absolutely love, and hes crazy mad about me too. The problem is that my mother is there, she doesn't allow me. The guy is a BIG FAT GREEN WALKING FLAG. cares, romantic, protective, emotionally and mentally available and kind. Im not allowed to talk to him, and i get threatened if i do, my mother will tell my father.
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Sounds like quite the conundrum!!! 🤔 I totally get that you're feeling all the feels for your guy, especially if he's emotionally available and romantic; those are rare qualities 🥹 But it seems like there's a lot of tension with your mom, and I can't help but wonder why she's so against it??? Family dynamics can be super complicated, and honestly, even though your parents mean well, their decisions might just be based on their own experiences or fears, rather than seeing the awesome connection you have.
When I was younger, I faced a similar situation with my folks being strict; eventually, opening up a dialogue really helped shift the narrative—although it took some patience and compromise from both sides 🤷♀️ Maybe you can try to show them the positives and the green flags (lol literally); Let them see the bigger picture of how your happiness is intertwined with this relationship. Though it seems tough right now, sometimes parents' perceptions change when they see how genuinely happy someone makes you 🥰 So, hang in there, and hopefully, you can work towards a resolution that works for everyone involved! 😊