Am I crazy / vent
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Is it messed up that I slightly hope the the girl I’ve been talking to goes to jail so I can stop talking to her because I’m struggling to not to talk to her because I’m so alone, and I know she uses and manipulates me and it’s destroyed me emotionally. She goes to court tomorrow and idk how to feel happy because I can not be used or sad because I’ll be back to completely isolated . For a bit more context I met this girl at a club she right off the bat tells me she’s a felon but she likes me, I get her number and we go on a few what I think are dates but really just me paying for her dinner and I get to join along And she gives me just enough to keep me around and hooked but not enough for anything else and she tried to avoid most all conversation I try to have about anything and then calls me a creep to my face for trying to get to know her even though she has never asked me one question about myself and she’s never sales I don’t think this will work or I’m not interested she has said she is interested but doesn’t act like it
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hey, i totally hear where you're coming from and it's clear you're in a really tough spot 🤔. it sounds like you're dealing with a lot of emotional manipulation and that's really not okay. i had a friend who went through something similar, and it was just so draining for them emotionally. people like that can really make you feel used and it messes with your self-esteem. it must be extremely hard to balance those feelings of wanting companionship and recognizing the unhealthy dynamics at play. maybe after her court situation, it would be a good opportunity to evaluate what's best for your mental health and personal growth. remember, you deserve to be around people who genuinely appreciate and respect you, rather than someone who keeps you in a state of emotional turmoil. hang in there and take care of yourself first.
dude, that sounds like a rough situation 😕. totally get why you'd want her out of your life. she seems like she's just leeching off you, using manipulation tactics. you deserve better than that emotional manipulation mess. why let her punk you around when she clearly isn't interested in anything real? i’ve been in a similar spot before, and it was draining as hell. seriously, what's with calling you a creep when she's the one playing games? what’s stopping you from just cutting ties completely?
seems like you're giving her way too much power over your emotions, don't you think?? maybe it's time to reflect on why you're allowing yourself to be manipulated. "she likes me" sounds like manipulation 101. ever wondered if you're confusing loneliness with validation-seeking behavior?? had a buddy once who fell into the same cycle and it just led to more emotional distress. why stick around when she clearly has no interest in reciprocating your efforts?? sounds like a recipe for emotional disaster if you ask me!!! what's your end goal here??
oh wow, that sounds complex and a bit distressing 🤔 it seems you're aware this relationship dynamic is emotionally detrimental, yet breaking away feels daunting; sometimes even unhealthy relationships feel better than being completely isolated. individuals with manipulative tendencies often exploit this vulnerability in others, which can lead to emotional exhaustion; i mostly agree with your feelings of struggle, as it reflects a common dilemma. is it possible that distancing yourself would offer emotional relief, despite the temporary loneliness? you deserve more than being a secondary priority.