currently unalive ..
The story
these days im not in the mood to go anywhere. my friend is getting married this week and she lives farrrr away from me. it took 4 hours from my place to go hers and im scared if i go there, it will not reach my expectation (in a simple words, im scared getting ignored since it has been more than 5 years we didnt meet).
i also have concert on december but im not in the mood to go (thinking to resell the tix) and i feel like the possibilities of me getting disappointed is higher than happy and satisfied. i feel like if i want to get my sparks back, i need to go to the concert but i feel like its not worth it..
does anyone know what am i going through actually? and is there any ways to make me feel contented again? :')
Stories in the same category
Points of view
Honestly, it sounds like you're caught up in some major analysis paralysis. 😅 You're overthinking everything so much that it's stopping you from enjoying life! If your friend invited you to her wedding, there's a reason for that... maybe she values you more than you think?! As for the concert, sometimes the build-up and anticipation are just as fun as the event itself. Try not to let fear of disappointment keep you from potentially awesome experiences!!!
man, it really sounds like you're in a bit of a funk; i’ve been there too, when nothing seems exciting and everything feels like an effort; sometimes just taking baby steps helps, like doing something small that you enjoy or reaching out to your friend with a quick message before the wedding? it can make all the difference.
yo, sounds like you're really stuck in a rut; been there too when everything feels like such a drag. maybe it's not about the events themselves but finding a bit of joy in the little things around you? sometimes just switching up your routine or trying something new can help reignite that spark 🔥 maybe instead of focusing on what might go wrong, consider how these experiences could surprise and uplift you instead.
sounds like you're in a bit of a funk, which honestly happens to the best of us; sometimes the thought of a long trip or even something exciting like a concert just feels more exhausting than it's worth. maybe it's not about forcing yourself to go but finding small things that bring you joy closer to home? low-key activities could help you recharge without the pressure😊; reconnecting with your friend might be easier through video calls or messages first, just to break the ice after so long apart.
seems like you're dealing with a mix of anxiety and maybe even a bit of self-doubt; it’s tough when your mind constantly weighs potential outcomes. ever thought about reaching out to your friend before the wedding to gauge how she's feeling about you coming? could give you some clarity 🤔 concerts can be hit or miss, but the atmosphere alone might just reignite something in you... sometimes it's not about the event itself, but the journey there that changes us.
It sounds like you're dealing with a classic case of decision fatigue. When faced with various choices that require emotional investment, it can become overwhelming and lead to avoidance, as our minds sometimes equate potential outcomes with real threats. 🤔 In your situation, both the wedding and the concert seem weighed down by high expectations, which may overshadow the genuine enjoyment they could bring. One approach to consider is shifting focus from anticipated scenarios to the actual present moment: what do you feel like doing today, right now? Often, grounding ourselves in immediate actions rather than hypothetical futures can alleviate stress and help rekindle interest naturally.